So i'm 21 and i've been in this for a while. This summer i scored a 23 year old woman, D cup and all. Absolute stunner. Cold approached her in a bar, made out, arranged a date. Date went really well and ended up at my place. I didn't escalate all too smoothly and was nervous. Made out on my bed and i wanted to go to the next level, she told me it won't happen, but i was needy and insisted. She left. There never was a second date.

So basically my nervousness and neediness ruined her mental image of me and threw all her attraction for me out of the window. If i had more experience in this situation this wouldn't have happened. That's why i want to find an FWB. Plus my sex 'game' lacks the most.

I'm having trouble finding one. I'm in college and all 'women' i meet at clubs are 18-20 year olds who are very childish on the topic of sex. I feel like one night stands happen on pure luck (as in, is she drunk or not?). Also, when i try to escalate (in a calibrated way), i get labelled a fuckboy by these girls. They feel the raw confidence and they bring all their fucking shields up. Talked to my female friend about this. She said i don't have the appearance/vibe of a "nice guy".

I don't get it how seddit talks about college being the paradise for sex or something. I can't wait to meet women of 22-23 who appreciate what we do more.

I have 3 girls in my DMs now. One i haven't met yet and 2 i have. Those 2 have either been at my place or i have been at theirs (met them both once). They trust me and i like them as friends (would want more though). I don't get how i can make a girl my FWB. Should you be frank on your intentions from the start? Should i say i'm not looking for anything serious? They're both busy now unfortunately so till next year (we all have exams).

All in all my game is constantly improving but i'm not getting the results i want (yet). I need sex experience the most. ALso, this 'game' thing seems counter-intuitive for the first time, as in getting fuckboy-labelled and as in me having higher standards of women which results in me being picky. Doesn't help if i want to find an FWB.