So I went out with this girl a couple of times and it was always going well until I tried to make a soft move or even just touch her. She always had a repulsive response. I said oh well I guess she’s just not into me and let it go but after a few weeks her friend hits me up and asks me why I’m not making a move on her(the original girl not friend).

So I arrange another date and at the end I try to kiss her, she moves and doesn’t want to do it. I feel like an idiot because it was obvious she didn’t want on previous dates. But somehow the next morning she sends me a paragraph saying how she wanted it but doesn’t know why she didn’t do it

How can I fix this problem? Maybe introduce touch at the start of the night? Is she really that bored so she’s playing me?