There's a cool speakeasy bar that I love taking women to because it is very intimate, dark, and overall great vibes. Tons of couch seating, really makes escalation a breeze.

There's technically no dress code, but the bar is a little fancy and is best to dress up a bit (any casual dress is fine).

Is that too much for a first date for mid/late 20 year olds? Does the extremely dark and intimate setting come off as trying too hard?