I know this will seem like an odd question so I'll preface it with some back story.

I had been on a long dry spell almost 3 years. I had been going out a few times here and there but couldn't get any traction. Since I felt my online game was/is better then my IRL game I decided to try okcupid. After a couple girls I went out with one girl and it went well. Second date was f-close. After that she wasn't interested in pursuing anything more. Ok no big deal.

Then I felt something change in me. The drive I had the previous couple years feels almost gone. It's almost like I have no interest to seek out girls right now. I sent out a couple more feeler messages on okcupid just out of curiosity. In fact there is one new girl I am chatting with. She wants to get together next week and she sent me her number earlier today but I have yet to send a text or anything acknowledging it.

Is what is happening to me normal? Or am I hitting the other extreme from where I was a few months back where I HAD to have a date. To now I almost could care less if I get one again. Thoughts?