Is this a test?

dailymanup · 2018-11-27T18:44:07+00:00

You have two solutions. 1. Move on and find other girls to talk to. If this girl has any interest in you at all, she'll notice you're not paying attention to her anymore and will start chasing you. If not, then that's the end of it. 2. You can treat it like a test. For example, you can respond: "Me too. I don't really want to talk either." Then randomly just start talking about something and see what she does.

2018-11-27T23:22:55+00:00

She is trying to bait you into being her emotional tampon. Go radio silent until she expresses a readiness to devour ur hogg.

great_account · 2018-11-27T23:30:57+00:00

Then drop it. If she's interested, she'll text you.

wawakaka · 2018-11-27T23:37:51+00:00

Next her

Bad mood all the time not a good sign

Manners2210 · 2018-11-27T19:12:54+00:00

Lol how do we know if she means it. Just take it at face value. “Ok, hope all is OK, I’m here when you want to talk”. She can’t be mad at that, you’ve respected that she doesn’t wanna talk, shown compassion, and let her know you’re there. If she gets mad because she’s testing you, tell her you’re not 14 and not interested in games.

pilipinonguci3 · 2018-11-27T18:52:14+00:00

I recommend you read Mark Manson's book "Models"

I always assume that women aren't playing games. What that does is it weeds out women who play "hard to get", which I find to be emotionally immature. If a girl texted me that she's in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk, I'd take that at face value. I'd probably text her something like "Sorry to hear that, hope you feel better soon. Let me know if I can do anything to help" or "Hope you feel better soon, let me know when you want to talk. If you don't want to talk, that's fine too".

It could be any # of reasons why she says that. Maybe her mom just died and she's having a bad time. Maybe she just wants an excuse to not talk to you. Maybe she's just generally depressed.

Not everything is a "test". Also, I find women who do "tests" are generally emotionally immature

Title	Is this a test?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	November 27, 2018 6:18 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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