Is this count as "to much available"

hunterpua · 2020-02-23T14:21:55+00:00

Yes. Because you're showing her that she's more important than you or your friends.

Even if you don't tell her that you canceled any plans you're affecting your own psychology because you also tell yourself that your plans and your time with your friends isn't as important as spending time with her and that will make you adopt needy behaviors towards her sometimes without you even noticing.

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Insaneflirt_max · 2020-02-23T16:02:52+00:00

Never ever E V E R cancel plans for a girl. It should actually be the other way around, you cancel the girl for your plans.

DaKingOfDaTRAP · 2020-02-24T13:59:52+00:00

Yes because you are now prioritizing her over your own plans. Also being to available can cause her to lose interest rarely do women want someone who says how high when they say jump they like the chase as well so if you already have plans stick to your plans tell her you already have arrangements that way she knows that your time is valuable and she can’t have it whenever enticing her to ask for it way in advance.

MrMemper · 2020-02-23T18:06:33+00:00

You fit her in your schedule when it suits you. If she’s interested enough she’ll bend to that or you’ll find a happy medium. Everybody has schedules. It can be tricky sometimes

Title	Is this count as "to much available"
Author	7udgerKresnik
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	February 23, 2020 2:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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