"It feels weird."

martiansnapchats · 2014-03-07T15:42:36+00:00

Uhhh I think she's trying to say you're making her feel uncomfortable, but there is so little context that I couldn't really say. If a high school girl is telling you something is weird, that probably is not a good sign.

slykethephoxenix · 2014-03-07T15:42:13+00:00

My advice to you is that you're probably coming on too hard. Just be playful, not acting like you want sex or something. It could very well be arousing her, but she may not like it. I'm guessing she's your age or slightly older. In my country, 16 is the legal age of consent. If she is younger, then you can't ask for advice here (I think 18 is the legal age in the USA?). In any case, target older woman, you'll learn more.

Naa2078 · 2014-03-07T17:10:01+00:00

It sounds like you're being "creepy" and she wants you to stop.

takeout87 · 2014-03-07T18:16:38+00:00

Maybe it's been a while since I have been in high school, but 15yo girls are going to respond WAY differently to the stuff talked about in here than an 18yo or a 22yo. She's a kid (as are you), and most of the advice in here is aimed at people who are more sexually and emotionally mature than most 15yo's.

My advice is to tone it back a bit. If you're hitting on a 15yo the way an 18yo hits on another 18yo, you're probably doing it wrong.

HappyJerk · 2014-03-07T17:01:06+00:00

You done really fucked up.

Kino is only appropriate when you've made it clear you are interested in a girl and she has shown some (minimal) interest back. Otherwise you are just creepily touching her. It's not normal to just touch people. There was a post about some guy sitting next to a girl on a bus and kinoing her. DON'T. Let her know you're interested. If she likes you back, go for it. Otherwise, back off. Also, there are some situations where its just inappropriate (especially if you're in school). You don't want to look like an animal with no control over themselves.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-03-07T18:23:16+00:00

Too little context to determine if anything is creepy. But she is 15 which is pretty young as fuck. She probably has no idea what to do because of this, girls this young legit are clueless as fuck. But honestly people here take kino WAAAAY out of proportion. It's almost like everyone is obsessed with kino and that they feel they have to apply at all costs. The truth is you need to chill with the kino. Doing kino alone will not get you a date with this girl or to sleep with her. What are you trying to accomplish anyway? Do you want to date this girl or have sex with her? Understand what you want first and then try to develop a means to get to it.

puaCurveBall · 2014-03-07T19:22:28+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	"It feels weird."
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	March 7, 2014 3:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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