Hey guys

You know how you go out and some nights you just own it, everything is awesome and you get amazing results, overall feeling really good. Then there are those nights that just purely suck. You can't get into the zone, you feel tired, you drink but it doesnt even go down well and you still feel bored/tired/shit. We have all been there and my god have I had hundreds of those nights. Over the years I have figured out what works for ME to have an awesome night GUARANTEED EVERY TIME.

So theres two things I do that basically ensure that I don't ever have a bad night. What constitutes a good night for me? Having a good time, enjoying myself, being in a flow state and having fun talking to girls. One way is to relax, the other way is to absolutely beast it. Both result in the same positive night.

So "relax" - What I mean by this is basically I go out and enjoy the music with my friends. I sometimes drink sometimes don't, but if i feel like having a drink il go do that. If i feel like dancing il jump on the dance floor for a little. Its all about just freeing up my mind from thoughts and having fun talking to my mates. Over time, this gets me into a carefree zone, a flow state that just naturally feels good and I, without thinking approach girls and get them into my group of friends, we get the party going and the results are great because girls can feel the carefree, relaxed vibe and they feel comfortable. This type of night happens very naturally if you go out a lot. Most of my nights look like this.

The second thing I do to ensure I have an awesome night is to absolutely BEAST IT. When my "relax" type of night doesnt seem to be working. This usually happens when im out with friends that don't go out much. Usually when the group vibe is low and I just can't seem to get myself out of my head. I get into beastmode! I split from my group and actively, consciously in my head go and approach girls. I fully go against my emotions and push myself to talk to the hardest sets I can see. Usually I get blown the fuck out because at that point my game is soo fucking off its not even funny, but before you know it, after 2-3 sets im in a talkative, fun mood and completely numb to the approach anxiety, i start to get into that flow and I can feel the positive energy radiate from me. Boom! Done!

So like I said, I usually start the night with the "relax" type of mindset and just enjoy the night with my mates and then shit gets fun and exciting and we create a party naturally.

When thats just not working for me (Which happens to everyone from time to time) I get into beast-mode KNOWING that the process works. I know if I feel shit now, and just go approach a whole bunch of sets, REGARDLESS of the outcome i will feel fucking good and in a flow state which allows me to get awesome results on the nights where I just cant relax.

Ive been testing this for 1.5 years consistently and its literally impossible for me to have a bad night these days...its scary! but I love it!

In saying that, sometimes on those crappy nights, it takes me one, two or even up to three hours to get into it, its usually when I find it hard to relax and im in a low state of consciousness I just stand there like a loser, not approaching and not having fun either. Its that point where I get so bored that I force myself to step it up and hit it up beastmode style, it ALWAYS works! trust it and you will see the results.

This is for intermediates I guess, newbies who don't really approach will find it hard to relate to this, but if you trust me and just push your comfort and get in there on those crappy nights I guarantee you that you will turn it around and end up having an amazing night! If you are a newbie, you can download my FREE guide: 10 Mistakes Guys Make When Approaching Girls

Let me know what you think. Anyone else go about their nights in a similar way? I've just written what works for me and whats worked for most of my mates. What works for you?