Ok, so you go out one night to meet the woman of your dreams and damn the luck, you end up meeting a group of women or one woman that doesn't fall into that category. Embrace it. Embrace the women that are not in your category of the dream. It's been said that there are three avenues in which you'll most likely meet the woman of your dreams. I'll give you a guess and the first one doesn't count. It won't be at a strip club where your dream girl just gave a 45 minute lap dance to a greasy faced older man who reeks of cheap cologne and is sporting velcro shoes. No, you'll most likely meet your dream girl at work, at school or through a friend.

Take note gentlemen. Through a friend. You must expand your social circle. I'm pretty sure you've been to the occasional Bar B Q or the inevitable going away party for an office co-worker. Had any luck in those areas? Well, if not I will now hand you the key. You must expand your social circle!! Those women that you meet when you're out, think of them as friends. If you have no interest in them by god treat them as friends. Invite them to functions with you and your friends and do it as often as possible! The best thing you can do is hang out with them. You know why?? Because it's not about them. It's about the people you will meet through them. You can now insert yourself into new social circles and you meet their friends, their brothers, sisters, co-workers and on and on. You build relationships with these people and meet even more people through them. You must see this as a way to not only create new friendships but also see the possibility of finding a great woman through these new friends. You have nothing to lose, you will meet genuine people, become friends and also have the potential to set yourself up for success. If you stay within your same social circle you are basically waiting for the woman of your dreams, by some great chance, to enter that circle of friends. If you want to find someone new you have to embrace all new people. I have had many circumstances where I wasn't remotely interested in a girl I met but then later was invited to a party where I met women in the dream girl category. Get out there, meet new people and embrace them!

Homework from this day moving forward - You must meet and get contact information from at least two people every week. This is a goal that I set for myself which increased as the weeks went on because I found two contacts to be a bit too easy. Once you meet two people per week, challenge yourself to more and more. No matter what happened to lead me to today, I can definitely say that it's been interesting and in the process I have been blessed with some really good friends. So, go get your homework done. Start TONIGHT!!