How many times have you met a woman, started up casual conversation and one minute into it and you can't recall her name? It used to happen to me quite frequently. You know how often it happens to me now? Never. Not anymore because I have a memory like a fucking elephant when it comes to remembering women's names. I can remember the name of my waitress when I was shooting pool more than 8 months ago with a group of friends. Think I'm joking? Her name was Faith. She was a Vietnamese girl that was taking classes at the local community college. I spoke to her in a playful manner and we ended up getting free pool all night. Notice I said in a playful manner. I wasn't flirting with her and as a matter of fact we actually spoke for a few minutes about her boyfriend toward the end of the conversation. I was just kind of giving her a hard time about the service, and about the lack of people in the place. Saying that it's probably attributed to her service. All the while smiling at her when I'm saying things. As long as she's smiling and playing around continue to play back. Now, you may be thinking that in the 10 tips I gave I mentioned to never give negative comments. This is an example of being playful. Being negative is telling a woman that her hair doesn't look good. By the way - never say anything negative about a woman's hair. They don't spend 45 minutes fixing that shit for no reason.

My point of all this before I got off track is, if you can't remember her name or what she says she will feel unimportant. This is really something that you should be doing anyway with anyone you speak to. Keep in mind that the key to communication is listening. If you can listen really well it'll not only give you more topics to branch out on during conversation but it'll also help you in the future when you show up at the pool hall and call her out by name. You must begin this today! The trick is, when you meet anyone immediately associate them with someone or something in your past. It's really not that difficult. Just give it a try next time you meet someone.