The only thing that's relevant is interacting with the girl; you always want to be thinking 'how does this affect my delivery', 'how does this come across when I'm expressing myself'.

You go out and you have to be 'non-needy'; how? What does it even mean? Where does the rubber meet the road?

If you had to set up a camera and record some content, do you know what you're doing to engage an audience? If not, you haven't learnt anything. In essence, you're presenting 'better quality', 'more engaging' content to get 'higher quality' people to watch; that's what 'game' is.

That isn't difficult because the makeup of what makes things 'engaging' is very attainable, but you have to aim at the target. Anything that isn't tangibly making you 'present better' (tangibly more attractive) isn't doing anything.

So, going back to 'non-needy', what does it mean? Not having tension in your body, so you're loose and relaxed, so you can project your voice, speak with passion and conviction, engage properly; it helps you communicate in an attractive way. As opposed to speaking like you're not sure that you want them to hear, delivering statements like you're asking a question, sounding like you're delivering 'bad news', not 'adding value', outright saying things as if it's 'shameful' and you should be 'looked down upon' even, etc.

If you're not getting results, your delivery isn't good enough. Why? There's too much insecurity, doubt, mental activity, anxiety -> which turns into physical tension -> which makes your voice, your enthusiasm, your conviction, your execution, 'weak'.

If you know how to present better than other guys, you can be better than other guys; it's not rocket science; if you don't feel like you're running laps around the competition, you've missed the point.

What it is, is diverting your energy from self-protection and putting it into expression. It's taking all of the energy you waste 'value scanning', 'self-doubting', 'filtering', 'judging', 'criticizing, etc. and putting all of your energy and focus in saying the next word or doing the next thing. That's all. "Being at the cause, not the effect".

If all of your energy and attention is in the delivery of "hey", that's a rich opener. If all of your energy and attention is fragmented, while your last 5% is going into your voice, you know how that plays out; you wouldn't want to watch that shit either.

That's what being 'high status' is, that's what being attractive is, that's how to do it. In first person, it doesn't feel like you're 'doing' anything, you're not. The absence of all of the tension, restriction and limitation makes your delivery great; it's the 'masculinity' you're aiming for; as opposed to the 'limp', twitchy, half-assed, 'attempt'. Anything else, which isn't affecting your delivery is frankly a circle jerk.