I've been very lonely and I've longed for a relationship over the last few years.

All of the sudden the girls seem to be flocking. I'm a good looking guy with a good personality, that's my saving grace. However, I live at home (23), my bank account just hit rock bottom, and I lost my job recently. None of the 3 girls know this (other than the fact I live at home with my parents).

I'm terrified that when they find out, they'll quickly lose interest. Obviously picking up women and seeking out a girlfriend shouldn't be a priority when I'm financially strapped, but they came to me and I've grown fond of all 3 of them.

I know what I need to do, but there is no quick fix for earning cash and finding a new job. It takes some time.

Has anyone else been in a situation like this? I guess I just need reassurance that things might turn out fine. I really want to keep my financial situation a secret.