Okay well I have been studying seduction on and off for a couple of years, after time and numerous blow outs and successes, It became clear to me that direct/natural game is the only way forward. Also most importantly understanding masculinity and what it means to be a man is VERY important.

Focus on improving your life, women are there to be enjoyed not to be stressed about and some beacon of light, as if their precious feminime jewels will secure you a lifetime of happiness.

I know guys who have a 100 plus sex count with various beautiful women, however to be harsh, most of them are underachievers at everything else in life. Either alcoholics, compulsive liars or just scared little boys, they can say funny one liners and know how to close the deal so to speak, but you wouldn't wish to be like them.

This led me to wonder, women come and go, on the whole their opinion is invalid. If anything they make bad decisions when it comes to guys over good ones, they will go for the most dominant confident male, his morals or principles don't really matter.

Point is focusing on yourself and your own self development is key, having a chick break your heart is the most important thing that can happen to you, as you will understand that as a man, you always have to stand erect without the help of others.

Now lets get to the actual "getting women" part.

If you want a girlfriend, aside from your own steps of self development, I would say this.

Every week set a target of approaching 20 attractive women, club, bar, or in the supermarket, whenever you feel that burning desire inside you. This will improve your seduction skills more than hiding behind the safety of a keyboard or book will do. Keep this up and you will have a girlfriend by the end of the month, each time you approach a chick, that nice guy inside of you takes a hammer blow.

It may sound like a contradiction but don't spend your life running in circles over chicks, become self dependent and self reliant, see a woman you like go for her, actions speak louder than words. Focus on becoming a demi god of yourself, never seek validation from outside of yourself otherwise you are hurting yourself.