I've got a pretty good game, except when I don't apparently. How do you guys not let rejection destroy you?

SSJZoroDWolverine · 2015-06-23T02:34:14+00:00

What helped me is remembering that confidence isn't knowing she's gonna like you. Confidence is knowing you're awesome whether she does or doesn't. So think of it as a game. If you get her number, you win. If you can take a rejection and laugh about it and move on, you win. You only lose if you take it seriously.

enzo32ferrari · 2015-06-23T02:27:35+00:00

Don't take it to heart too much. I've been rejected lots of times, but I've gotten more successes. With wins will come losses. Work on your inner game and you'll get over it eventually. I eventually did; it sucked at first, but I learned to learn from my mistakes or why things didn't go as well as they could've and made my game better cause of that

Sounds like you need to visit /r/malefashionadvice or /r/malehairadvice to fix things up.

touchandgo666 · 2015-06-23T04:02:07+00:00

I think it's best to try to think of rejection as a positive thing. What's the alternative to either getting rejected or getting what you want? Not trying at all. So regardless of the outcome you should always be proud of yourself for having the balls to try, considering a lot of people don't even make it that far.

Also I'm kind of curious where you are meeting girls who are calling you homosexual based on your clothing style. That just reeks of the kind of crap you hear from really dumb, immature people in a super douchey club. There's nothing wrong with AA or BR, but make sure you wear it cause you are 100 percent into the fashion. If you don't feel completely natural (not saying that's the case) then it's going to affect your confidence

cowmastermind · 2015-06-23T00:57:07+00:00

Remember that getting rejected is the same thing as never trying in the first place.

Title	I've got a pretty good game, except when I don't apparently. How do you guys not let rejection destroy you?
Author	boner-zone
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	June 23, 2015 12:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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