Just need some simple advice.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-11-09T10:43:32+00:00

You're not going to meet women sitting at home and watching Netflix. You will have to go to them. You don' t have to go to bars or parties, but you will have to go somewhere that women are easy to meet.

RedErin · 2010-11-09T16:23:41+00:00

You should go out and party more often. You sound boring.

domintenor23 · 2010-11-09T23:50:03+00:00

Fine, don't go out and party. But you need to leave your fucking house. Join a running club, or some other club. There are plenty of social circles out there for people not trying to get wasted and party hard...you just need to get off your ass and find them.

Also, don't feel obligated to drink if you don't like to. When you go out, just drink iced water. I do it all the time, no big deal.

domintenor23 · 2010-11-09T07:45:19+00:00

First of all you need to tell us a little about yourself. Are you a college student? I suggest you do the stronglift 5x5 program. Work on your squat, go all the way down not pussy shit. Every morning start your day with a protein shake, a cup of oatmeal and 5 egg whites. Going to the gym 3 times a week will really change you. In 3 months you will feel completely different.

philosarapter · 2010-11-09T16:53:22+00:00

Avoid hair-gel, use better products like polmade (sp?) or hair wax.

Practice your movements and facial expressions in the mirror. Work on smiling with your eyes and your "you know you want me baby" look. :P

Also it seems to me that your style is a bit conflicted. You dress in carnigans but you prefer staying in? Perhaps you could shop around and find some good name brand clothes that fit your "chill" personality better. If you're wearing a suit the woman is going to expect a limo, some champaign and a hotel party.

As for not wanting to go out and partying, a bit part of pickup is removing yourself from your comfort zone and putting yourself out there. If you are in college, a party is where the girls are going to be, plain and simple.

If you prefer staying inside, thats fine, but you have to meet the girl half way. Girls love going out, its a fact of life. Go to the party, have a good time being all outgoing, then bring the girl back to your place, and the next day cook breakfast together and rent some shit on netflix (insta-date) and have sex all day.

A little bit of compromise will do you some good.

jagermeistr · 2010-11-09T18:45:49+00:00

Let me be frank.

I'm 23, I graduated from college in 2009. You have the rest of your life to watch TV. When you're unemployed living at home with your mom (like me) you'll have TONS of time to watch TV!

For now though you have your own place/room, tons of wild girls walking around drunk for 3 nights of the week (Thursday-Saturday), and nothing but time on your hand to chase girls and have a blast with your friends. Shit, one of those girls may actually like you and want to hang out during the week where you guys could watch TV together and have secks. Enjoy it now, because once its over, its over big time.

Title	Just need some simple advice.
Author	domintenor23
Upvotes	2
Comments	22
Date	November 9, 2010 7:13 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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