Alright I'm gonna give you guys an advice from an experience of mine which can also be a rant if you guys see it that way.

To start, I usually go to the gym with a friend of mine. He is a good looking guy, muscular, and fit, girls come to him alone as he almost never iniciate or approach. On the other hand, I'm a hit or miss type of guy (I'm fit and have a nice face I'd say) so it's either girls find me attractive or not, some girls approach me but majority of times I'm the one who iniciates.

One day in the gym a girl approached my friend she is a tall girl (6ft+-180cm+), you can say she is average looking what gives her the most assets is that she is tall. They quickly became acquaintanced and it was obvious that the girl was into him, as I only focus in my exercise at the gym and I'm usually the silent type when focussed I never really interacted with her except for the hellos and goodbyes whenever she comes to my friend.

One night I went with my group of friends to a disco and coincidentally this girl was there too, she danced and talked to us. When the night ended she walked with us to go home (4 guys 1 girl) being drunks and all, all of us got into a lot of talking and some banter, she was laughing and having a goodtime i'd say so I thought there was no problem, hell I even learnt that she leaves literally on the other side of my street as she went walking with me till I got home the fuck lol.

So this is where the annoying part comes in, I'm in the short spectrum so I was never really interested in her, Mind you I never even flirted with her. I started going alone sometimes in the gym and I see her there, so not to be awkward and look cold I started saying hello to her whenever we see each other or walk past to each other, Her on the other hand was cold she had this disgust look in her face. I thought I was going crazy, I thought I was being too insecure so I just put it past me.

The next time I asked my friend, I told him ''Hey do you know if *girl* has problem with me? she always has this disgust face when I say hello to her'' then this is what my friend answered ''I don't know, but she always brag to me that a lot of guys hit on her, maybe she thinks you're hitting on her?''

This is where it came to me, These girls have a lot of guys coming to them, trying to impress them. So a lot of them has this complex that every guy who tries to be polite or act nice means that they are trying to fuck or get their hearts.

Honestly I don't understand this fucking mentality and it just annoys me. So the next days I started ignoring her in the gym idk why but I sometimes I see her glancing at me in the fucking mirrors and it creeps me out. I also came from a coutnry where being polite to people and greeting people you know is important and a common thing so I feel uncomfortable when I don't do it. But fuck that if being polite means that I'm tryign to flirt with you then I'm out lol