Have any nerdy weirdos had success? I’m socially inept and am reading a couple books on social skills and cues and humor etc.

I have read models and a bunch of posts here.

Any recommendations for other material would be dope.

I gave up on parties and nightclubs and bars as they just aren’t my demographic, I’m like nerdy and weird, I can tell because I’m always the one pressed, made fun of, or just ignored.

I don’t know if I have autism or ADHD as I have never been diagnosed or went to a doctor for it. Neither have I been to therapy cuz my parents don’t believe in it.

However I did take an autism test online and got high probability. I take it as a grain of salt since online tests are bullshit and you shouldn’t self diagnose.

Plus my friends always call me retarded or socially inept.

So main question is has anyone like me had success and managed to become socially adept? Or are we kinda doomed to die alone, or settle, or be forced to arranged marriage. (I’m Indian).

I have this one socially adept friend who’s just insane. I’ve studied his interactions and observed his rizz and he’s just on a whole other level. He just joined this frat which is hard to get into, and obviously gets plenty of women. He’s like a gazzilion times better than I am and what makes it even crazier is this came to him naturally. He’s been like this since age 12. He didn’t need to learn a thing nor read anything etc. some people are just cracked, be lying if I said I wasn’t jealous, I’d kill to have even a tenth of his social skills

I’m also 20, 5’11, in college studying CSE, and have a car. My stats.