A lot of content out there and here on Seddit.

Did you read or see something that clicked with you and made you think, "Yeah, I should try that."

Then go do it RIGHT NOW. If I have a client who's struggling with something and I break through to him, I tell him, "Now get off this call and go approach someone RIGHT NOW."

I've always been action-oriented. Maybe too much so, but when my mentor taught me something or I read something awesome, I'd get off my ass and plan a night out or head out to approach within a few minutes.

I remember once when my direct style of game was hitting a plateau and I had some attainability problems (i.e., I was too overtly sexual and even though girls loved it, I could tell that maybe they would feel like a slut if they came home with me right after we'd talked about sex explicitly). My mentor advised that maybe I should add some romance to the mix.

A few minutes after reading his email, I walked outside to move my car and saw a beautiful girl walk past my car. I hadn't showered or brushed my teeth yet, it was hot as fuck outside, and I was wearing a two day old T-shirt, some raggedy basketball shorts, and Jesus slippers.

And yet, I still ran up to her and told her that I thought she was beautiful. She was only in town for the night and I was very romantic with her in both my vibe and words, while still being sexual. I pointed to my apartment building and said, "Okay, let's meet right there at 7pm. We'll grab coffee and have an amazing time!" while holding her hand. She smiled and told me she'd be there.

She showed up at 7pm, we grabbed coffee, went for a walk, I kissed her twenty minutes later and pulled her to a dirty public bathroom. Some random hobos showed up just before we got to action so I said let's head back to my place to fuck. She accepted and we had an amazing night together.

Obviously that was my particular sticking point, showing girls interest both sexually and in them as a human being, wanting to give them pleasure as a gift to each other, but this applies to all sticking points you might have.

Where are your weak points?

What do you want to learn or work out?

Learn about it then go apply it. The faster, the better, because you'll be using that motivational energy of, "I want to try this!" which will make it more fun, and you'll also see what works and what doesn't in real time.

Learn then take action - immediately.

Hector Castillo