I am at a point where I am old enough to share my experiences. A lot of you who came on to this sub came on here with one purpose and that is to fuck lots and lots of different women. The reason most guys learn "game" is because they want to be "the man". These guys want to get the hottest girls, have tons of sex with lots of different women, and have some fun stories to tell as they look back on their youth. I made this post for the readers of seddit and other places like it, it speaks a lot of truths which some people may not like.

Attractive women don't disappear after college, in fact they become a lot more common depending on what city you're in.

It seems to be a common notion around here that you will never be around a lot of hot women after college, that is simply false. I went to a party school that at one point was known for having a lot of hot girls, still met a lot more hot girls in a lot of big cities. Hot girls do not disappear after college, anyone who tells you that is a loser. Speaking of hot girls, lets talk about what a lot of you want to do with hot girls...

Getting hot girls, getting laid, and hooking up isn't as enjoyable when you're older. I will say that after the age of 25 it tends to lose its magic because you are no longer a part of something bigger than yourself anymore.

Getting laid and sleeping with that hot girl was fun in high school and even in college, because every guy (or at least the vast majority) was trying to do it. You could brag about it, other guys respected you for it, and you felt like a celebrity if you slept with a hot girl on campus. You two were going through the same things in life and you felt like you were a part of something big whether it was a college or high school student.

You were a part of a student body where thousands were going through the same thing as you, there was a community, and everyone loosely knew each other. It was fun to get laid, have sex, and hook up on prom nights, formals, and in dorms because so many other people were doing it. Sex was more than sex, it was magic.

Well after school no one gives a fuck about you. People don't place much value on sex or how much you get laid.

To put it differently, getting with a hot 20 year old is a lot more fun when you are 20 yourself as opposed to getting with her when you are 30 and in different stages of life.

It isn't as enjoyable fucking randoms when most guys your age are getting married and becoming dads.

You missed out because you were a misfit but thankfully women become more objective as you get older.

When you're younger, it's not even about how handsome you are or how much game you have, it's all about how cool you are. Overweight guy who is down with the cool kids gets more pussy than handsome guy who is a social outcast, that is the way it is in school settings. To an extent, it is like that in the real world but women become more independent and they choose objectively better guys.

In college she would have picked the overweight alcoholic over a handsome guy because he was in a fraternity, in the real world she will pick the handsome guy because he is handsome.

In college, the overweight guy could beat the handsome guy because he happened to be in a fraternity but the real world is much more objective, the better man on paper tends to win more often.

The internet makes it look easy but do not underestimate how tough it is to live the life full of lots of sex and fun, especially after 30.

It is in a word highly difficult.

Sorry but making it to 30 as someone that isn't fat, has a job, and has game isn't enough to live that sort of a life. If you want to live that life, you better be bringing something to the table that brings hot girls in. Club owner is one of the examples but not every guy can make it to that point. My point being, living that life is way more difficult than the internet makes it seem. Whatever you do, don't be that creepy old guy trying to pick up younger women at the gym, parties, or the bar; it will rarely work unless you really lower your standards.

So if you are young and have aspirations of being that guy in adulthood, you better have a serious plan.