So literally every girl that likes me likes me because I'm Asian. this is besides my ex that hates me now, but she didn't like me because of my race, it was the way I was, which unfortunately was the same reason she doesn't like me anymore.
Now there is nothing wrong with this, its something that I can't change and something that tells me I'm not really good at attracting other girls thats not based on my race besides my ex. I just went to the club, got rejected by literally everyone (5 openings in one night). I wasn't discouraged, or anything, I didn't have any anxiety and I was just having fun but I look back and think hmm, how can I do it not based on my race? I'm assuming that it worked against me since it was a hispanic club, but most of the girls I've hooked up with have been Latinas.
There are a lot of things that confuse me, like the fact that I have nothing good to run on besides my mostly hairless body. I'm not particularly good at anything, I'm not even very Asian in my mannerisms. But i realize that I've got nothing but Asian chasers coming after me, and its nice to be chased, but at the same time there is a helpless feeling knowing that the girl chooses me and I don't get to choose a girl very often.
Is there anything that I can do about it? I know I dress well, I'm a good looking guy (I'd say I'm probably the best looking of all the Asian guys I know besides 1) and externally I'm pretty happy about my appearance, there is nothing wrong with my 'inner game' as I don't have any deep seated problems, but I feel so helpless!!!
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