‘so what are you looking for?’ Is the most loaded question ever!

When a woman asks you this, you need to asses what she wants from the vibe of the previous conversations and answer in a short sentence, either ‘something pretty serious, you?’ or ‘nothing serious, you?’ don’t explain, don’t over indulge and send it back to her ASAP. Even if you want the same thing, don’t talk too much... you might want it too much and even that might put her off.

She actually wants to hear the wrong answer, like a ‘I knew it’. If she wanted to hear the ‘right’ answer she wouldn’t ask. Once she asks This there is usually a shift of energy/ power, which the only way to come back from for most is to leave her alone for a while.

She’s either asking you this because she wants to fuck and thinks you’re going to be too clingy, or wants a relationship and thinks you’re going to fuck and leave her.

Women ask this not to hear the correct answer, but to hear the incorrect answer to disqualify you. A shit test.

I’ve never believed in lying but from now, my theory has been tried, tested and proven. Please comment and share with the class if you have ever had a positive experience with a woman once she’s asked ‘so what are you looking for’