One thing I've noticed with girls, especially in social settings is that logical conversations turn them off.

They seem to respond better to banter or even you teasing them.

Girls seem to actually LIKE being sold a dream rather than you just being straight up with them.

Not sure how this correlates with them liking bad boys but I'm sure it does.

Either way this puts me off pursuing women knowing I have to almost put on an "act" for them to respect me and not see me as a mangina.