Looking for advice with opening messages

Numerous_Royal_5475 · 2025-05-21T10:24:03+00:00

Following this

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-21T20:43:44+00:00

There's really so much individual variation here. If you're really attractive, even "hello" can work. But for OLD, take note of any interests. People enjoy talking about their passions.

Lacunaethra · 2025-05-21T10:54:52+00:00

Examples of openers me or my gfs liked during our OLD times. I have to add that the age range here was 20-30, conventionally attractive girls who were dating for fun with no intention to immediately start a relationship.

"Let's skip the intro and go straight to marriage, how about that? :) "
"Almost swiped left by accident, IMAGINE. How are you?"
"Please don't be a bot, please"
"Have you ever encountered a good opener here?"

A lot of relationships in my social circle started with the classic "hi, how are u", tho.

Wean1eHu11 · 2025-05-21T11:22:59+00:00

Look through her profile and find something to use as a launching point. If you can come up with something witty that is usually best but you can also ask/comment on something. Tbh it’s kinda 50/50 whether she responds to witty pick up lines or more genuine openers like asking questions or comments, and it’s hard to tell which one to go with. If she’s really attracted she will respond to anything though

Title	Looking for advice with opening messages
Author	Throw_Away1672891
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	May 21, 2025 10:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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