I'm not sure what is killing attraction with girls online, but I go from being a presumed stud to zero in no time at all.

We joke and flirt initially, that gets me in the door and gets me their number. We hold a brief convo before I set up a date then I get hit with tougher questions like what do you do for fun, what are you doing for a career, and do you live alone or at home?

I answer the typical "I like sports" etc, I'm looking for work but currently transitioning ( unemployed actually) , and I live with parents.

I then ask to confirm a date time and I get the typical "sure, if nothing else comes up" when earlier in the conversation they admitted they would "love" to meet up, but I have to tell them more about me first. Are these classic shit tests over text?

I'm not sure why a man's career or his logistics matter so much to a woman, but when they find out I'm unemployed and live with parents, it kills the attraction really quickly. I'm answering with confidence and throw in the jokes, but it doesn't seem to make a difference.