Hey guys,

I just transferred to a new college as a 20 year old and have pledged a fraternity.

I am still a virgin for a number of reasons but at these parties the girls are hot enough to meet my standards (which are pretty high) to fuck on the first night but I am nervous as hell cus I always thought I would figure my first time out with a girlfriend or at least a friend thats a girl and not someone I meet that night.

I have an apartment to myself and all that and I am not retarded but I literally haven't been serious with a girl since I was 16.

I am just really nervous that the girl is gunna get pissed or weird because I am so inexexperienced and its expected that I know what I am doing (since I am older, a junior, and have my own place and all that).

And if I choose to keep my virginity which I have in the past and wait for a girlfriend, I do not think that would look good for me in the fraternity so I think I don't should do this. If I were to continue to wait for a girlfriend any advice on what to say or do at parties to avoid taking a girl back to disappoint without looking like a complete weirdo/loser? However, I am ready to get this over with. Any advice for losing virginity on a one night stand?