So last night I was at one of my favorite romps, this nice alley cafe that is open till midnight. Although I didn’t end up getting too flirtatious with anyone, I had a realization when I was talking to this guy there. It was that I already seem like the kind of guy who can get women and while I have no problem landing first dates, I’ve already been on like 3 since September , I’m not too huge on just hooking up. But regardless I’m realizing that I shouldn’t be to anxious inside when I go to that same place to talk to women. I think I’m going to go back tonight and just chat it up with a girl over some coffee and some work, not doing something wrong if I ask “is this seat taken” or something along those lines.