Making casual sex work

PimPedOutGeese · 2020-02-14T21:54:24+00:00

There’s not one way to make it work, I’ve been straight up with women about my intentions, and have it work. But I’ve also just kind of let it happen.

Being straight forward about it only works after having a few conversations before hand, you can’t open up that aggressive. Example: girl at the gym I had talked to before told me I should take her number. After texting for a bit we had a phone call in which I told her I was only talking to her because I wanted to sleep with her. She was ok with it and off we went.

Girl I’m sleeping with right now I met off tinder, our first time meeting was her coming over at 11pm to my house, so that usually is a pretty good signal too.

I highly recommend you read the book “mode 1”. It’s all about being that guy that is straight forward and gets sex.

PimPedOutGeese · 2020-02-15T00:17:41+00:00

Are you familiar with covert and overt communication?

Overt is straight forward and direct. Men speak in this operation.

Covert is a “round a bout” way of speaking usually never direct. This is female operation.

Here is a basic rule of thumb. You finally get the girl. You meet up. You do the deed.

It is ALWAYS casual at first until she decides she wants a relationship with you....

Note I said SHE not you... You need to be vetting her to see if she has the qualities to be in a relationship with you in the meantime. Never initiate the start of a relationship. And until you guys are exclusive continue to see other women.

GlitteringPause8 · 2020-02-15T00:31:44+00:00

For me, it has to be with someone I'm obviously physically attracted to but there's something about them that makes them 'un-dateable' (otherwise you risk getting attached much more easily).

My most successful casual sex relationships have always been the guy being more straightforward early on (ie more sexual flirting, asking to hang out as opposed to going on a date, or just "come over", less public activities, less deep convo and questions). Basically you just have to use common sense and look for the signs that it's just more sexual than serious. I hate when guys act like they want to date but they're just trying to get in my pants. If you wanna have sex, just be direct about it and I'll decide if I want to or not. Don't play games or manipulate me into it. Another this is both of you have to be on same page for it to work. If one starts wanting more or hoping for more, it needs to end because someone will end up hurt.

Nowadays I feel like a lot of people are down for casual sex so it should be easier to make it happen now than before.

GlitteringPause8 · 2020-02-15T00:47:24+00:00

No matter what you want, make your intentions clear. The kind of idiots who hint at a relationship they don’t want to get the girl to fuck them are the very people critics of Game are looking at.

Anna_Stone2020 · 2020-02-15T05:26:43+00:00

I had a fwb that I found on Bumble. I was honest that all I wanted was sex... Nothing else at all, I would text him and we would have sex. Then he would leave, very little cuddling or anything....worked out up til the day I found my bf. He was the first one I told about finding someone else. Now we don't talk, but it wouldn't be awkward if we did.

tigaleth · 2020-02-15T13:35:49+00:00

ok whats ioi andvyes you dont have to be rich but its me i like to go to dinner maybe a little dancing and thanks but i dobt have problems getting with females im a damn good looking man and im charming and witty, now hows that for confidence and charism my spellings not charming. Hey but its not getting women its the quality any man can score but ok this is shallow does she look like a horse or is she attractive mnit a super model but we are men and looks are the first feature we men key in on

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2020-02-16T00:41:37+00:00

Yeah man like others have said, there’s no one route. Although I will say this— I just had a tinder casual fuck work out smoothly because I just told her I enjoyed giving women head and it sparked her interest. In other words, if you offer in a non needy way, it may work better than “wanna fuck?” Or anything else along those lines. Women are constantly bombarded with guys wanting things sexually from them. If you offer to give, as in give them head, you may raise your chances of pussy. Now dont go doing this with every tinderella but if you see a window of opportunity, don’t be crass or gross, just be up front about your desire and offer what you can and would enjoy to offer her. But this cannot be done from a needy position or in a needy way.

thizzelle9 · 2020-02-17T03:31:33+00:00

Just be honest. Don't be a 🐖 about it, but women really dig (for lack of a better word) honesty. If she's into the situation, generally speaking, you'll know. If you want to find out if she is down then gauge how direct you can/need to be and then the medium i.e. text, face to face conversation, phonecall or whatevs and then shoot your shot. You never know if you don't try, the worst she can say is no........Or I want more than just sex.

tigaleth · 2020-02-15T05:44:12+00:00

so your telling me as a man that their are women that really just want to hook up no strings attached,

tigaleth · 2020-02-15T05:54:21+00:00

value as in what describe value ? good looks finacially stable well hung what exactly do you mean by value, and if im guessing right and its understood a woman doesnt want a broke ass man thats a given but what value are you refering to.

pureresilience11 · 2020-02-15T00:16:21+00:00

Try seeking arrangement game. You basically pay the girl’s groceries or give her dinner money and she fucks you. Borders on prostitution but it’s safer and more fun

Title	Making casual sex work
Author	yourguykyle
Upvotes	33
Comments	32
Date	February 14, 2020 8:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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