Making her qualify

ruffyamaharyder · 2018-12-31T18:31:08+00:00

You can definitely get them to qualify before attraction. Example: Girl sitting in general vicinity. You say: "Hey, who said you could sit with the cool kids?"

Or you can do something like: "Had to say hi to you and see if you were more than just a cute face"

keep a solid frame with confident body language and they will instantly qualify especially if they have friends around.

ermahgerdafancyword · 2018-12-31T20:03:50+00:00

You cannot make people attracted to you. You can make yourself attractive, both physically and mentally. Look your best, be an interesting and good person and behave in a way that is engaging and open to be engaged with. That is everything you have influence over and if someone isn't attracted to that, that's okay, others will be.

wowzacowza · 2019-01-01T03:17:35+00:00

You're thinking of attraction wrong. It's not like at this stage of attraction she will do this for you, and at that stage of attraction she'll do that, attraction is just the overall "how much is she into you" kind of vibe.

Qualifying her is a little like our version of a shit test. Basically what you're doing is presenting a girl with a frame that says "I'm better than you" and it's your goal to make the conversation reflect that frame. She's either going to accept that frame, or she's going to fight it. If she does fight it, she will probably do so with a shit test. If you defeat her shit test, and you maintain your frame of being superior, you will be gaining attraction.

Title	Making her qualify
Author	SimonDisaster
Upvotes	9
Comments	3
Date	December 31, 2018 5:58 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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