Meeting back up with ex

Any_Willow2044 · 2024-06-27T14:45:59+00:00

Ima be honest. She likely was with someone else and slept with them, she got used and now is coming back to you because plan B didn’t work out.

As someone with experience, I’m 99% certain. Keep that in mind when talking to her.

manofactivity · 2024-06-27T15:03:30+00:00

No matter how to decide to behave, you're going to pull it off badly because it's coming from a place of reactivity and neediness.

There is a huge difference, for example, between a guy being aloof and distant because his mind is genuinely elsewhere, and a guy trying to use it as a pickup tactic. You will subcommunicate that difference in a million ways - and girls are very good at picking these signals up.

The best thing you can do is decide you're not going to try to attract her again. You probably shouldn't even meet up, because it's possibly going to only entrench your unhealthy attachment.

Go meet new girls, try new personalities when flirting with them, that's all fine. But trying to pull it off with a girl you've already emotionally latched onto is a waste of time.

ModernAlphaAnswers · 2024-06-27T13:00:43+00:00

If you watch chick flicks, read romance novels for women, the main character is always the same. He is cool, calm, collected, acts aloof, acts hot and cold but is never needy or gives too much attention. This is what you need to understand, all women are attracted to a certain type of man, and you were acting the opposite which is why she was forced to leave you, the fact she wants to see you again proves that you not giving her attention (due to breakup) causes her to like you, MEANING you were giving too much attention to her. Obviously i'm not saying ignore her, but you need to find the perfect balance. What you must do now is play it cool, act cordial, don't be corny and flirt, simply act aloof and chill. Remember, WOMEN are attracted to a certian type of man, don't believe me? Watch every single chick flick or read any romance novel. You get what I mean?

little_green_fox · 2024-06-27T14:23:45+00:00

be fun, make her laugh. don't expect anything.

Title	Meeting back up with ex
Author	No_Collection9415
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	June 27, 2024 12:45 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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