Im recently single from my girl since high school that i was planning to marry. Im average hight and looks and feel like I wont be able to get girls that were on the same quality as my ex. The one thing I have going for me is I can be funny and Iv been in the gym for a bit since the break up. Is attracting girls now the same as in highschool? Iv been going to the bars with some success but I dont really like the girls at the bars (girls that are loud/drinking and smoking). I feel like girls can only get to like me after hanging out with me for a while and falling in love with my personality. I do still have a couple more semesters at school so I have a chance to meet girls there. My major doesn’t have a lot of pretty girls in the classes and the only time I would see girls is on the bus to class. Should I join college groups as a older mid twenties guy? Or would people see me as weird? Just need some general advice for a guy whos just now needing to attract girls for the first time in his adult life.