I ended up going out with some co-workers last sat. One of my friends introduced me to a hb-8 and i spent most of the night with her and # closed but that's not the part of the fr that i want to emphasize (I am very good when mutual friends introduce us). I wanted to get a drink and the bar was pretty packed ( crowds and ppl sitting around it). So i go to this 3 set that was sitting next to the bar (hb's 7,7 and 8) tapped one of their shoulder and asked her:

-"sweetheart, can you call the bartender for me? smile" I'm pretty sure that she heard me, but she just looked at me like she didnt know what was happening. I point over over the bartender and say in a dont be a retard tone -" yes, the bartender, Gin and tonic smile" So i got this cute girl trying to get my drink ( the place was pretty crowded so it took her a while) her 2 friends just turn around and start talking to me, small chit-chat we neg her friend that cant get a drink and have some laughs, they recommend me to try the raspberry lemonade(apparently it gets you wasted without feeling it, haha). They ask for my name and whatnot but it was one of my friends b-day so i leave them and go back to my friends.I should have probably stayed longer or came back to that group, but i was out with my friends and was trying to spend time with them.

I know this FR is nothing crazy but just wanted to let you guys know that in the past i would have never approached 3 set off all girls so they could get me a drink like it was nothing. Baby steps, right? I learned how far confidence can get you ! when i saw that set towards the end of the night they asked me if i tried the lemonade so i guess they remembered me. Next time you go out and the bar is packed why not try and get som1 standing next to the bar to get it for you, just own it!