More insecure from lifting

Mdamon808 · 2020-02-12T22:24:36+00:00

You will never know if this belief is true until you test it repeatedly. It's scary, but it's really the only effective way to disprove destructive beliefs about yourself.

smoothmax · 2020-02-12T22:59:33+00:00

You need to possibly work on self image and self esteem issues. Then work on being sociable, fun and friendly with people. With everyone not just hot babes that you want to date. Starting with your family, best friends, roommates, classmates, co-workers, etc.

There are plenty of resources and reading materials that can get you started. Find them, read them, do the exercises they prescribe and you'll make good, steady progress.

PixelBot · 2020-02-13T01:58:33+00:00

Inner game.

Keep working in the gym, but it’s rare to get laid on looks alone. Even if you’re a 9/10, you still need game. Trust me.

Next step is your inner game. For men, dating gets easier as you get older. We learn new things, become more interesting, make more money and become busier with jobs. This is attractive to women.

Please don’t stress. You’re very young. Focus on your studies. Then hobbies. What are your passions?

-Mavs · 2020-02-12T23:23:14+00:00

You're young, therefore, you still overthink a lot of things.

There will always be competition; the only thing you can change is your mindset and strengthen it.

You need to get to the point where you believe yourself to be a catch because no one else will do that for you (believe in yourself).

BigH1239 · 2020-02-13T03:32:25+00:00

Big boy has a bad case of bigorexia

starpower1008765 · 2020-02-13T06:36:04+00:00

read the power of now, and stop comparing yourself to others. what's attractive is someone who doesn't compare themselves to others.

2020-02-13T07:03:14+00:00

I've had a few girls I felt like were out of my league tell me how much I'm out of their league and how they couldn't believe I was interested in them. The fat guy mindset is a really hard one to break, and I still have issues with it, too, despite "looking like a Calvin Klein model" according to one. I don't see it when I look in the mirror.

Just gotta find ways to feel confident, not care, and go for what you want regardless if you think you're qualified or not.

excentrik-art · 2020-02-13T12:54:59+00:00

The beauty problem - just try to think about it this way - imagine that girl can feel the same as you. You feel inadequate because you think you need more muscle. She feels inadequate because she thinks she need more boobs/ass/makeup... Yet you look at her and think - man, what a hottie! Too bad she looks so distant, she must be snob... She looks at you, and thinks - What an attractive man, too bad he don't want to talk to me, I have such a messy hair, why I must be so shy...

more here

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/f1wx3z/how_to_prepare_for_whats_coming/fh95tgm?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x

Title	More insecure from lifting
Author	habbyshouse
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	February 12, 2020 10:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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