Field Test

I don’t want to write every single detail as it isn’t needed I find, just wanted some feedback as I am SUPER new to this and this is probably my first night out since reading up on some PUA stuff, here goes:

Back story: Friend I had a crush on before college (freshman here 19 years old), didn’t throw myself at her but sort of concluded I would never get her type of situation. Came back for Christmas break, she has a boyfriend so I figured I’d just have a bit of fun seeing as the night was really meh in terms of girls (ended up at an older bar 26+ vast majority). Here goes:

Went out with some friends, not much talent in the area but it was Christmas break and I was focusing on having a good time rather than aiming to score, I was friendly/ added light touches to people I greeted in the bar and had small talk with, smiling and having strong frame and posture all the while. Attractive female friend with boyfriend comes up and throughout the night I rather easily made the entire situation about me, leaving him in the cold, although it was not necessarily my intention, I just figured I would get some practice in and seeing as she had a boyfriend, as well as my attraction to her before attempting this new way of life, I figured why not.

I’m pretty new to this, so I kept good posture/tone/smile etc and kept her gaze, innocent kino touches when possible etc, threw in a few negs but also some compliments as well, examples:

When a good song came on: “So I just have to ask, do you dance as good as you look?” This seemed to work because she said “Haha why, do I look good to you? blush” I then figured she was asking for too much so I negged her a bit and replied saying “Definitely not the worst looking girl out tonight smile”, Like I said, it wasn’t much of a neg but then again I was honestly not trying to make this work.

Seeing as we were with a few other female friends I then asked one of them to dance, came back and then told her I would catch her later because I was going somewhere else. Later on in the night I ran into her at a food joint near the bar, where my buddy was sitting across from me in a booth, and she entered with her boyfriend. He went to order and she told me to move over, so I negged a bit (was actually really damn lazy to move as well so it was actually 100% natural) and said: “Ugh fine I guess I can make room, there’s plenty of other seats though” She then leaned into me full on, rubbing my fucking chest while her boyfriend was ordering and made me put my arm around her. Buddy next to me had to leave the room because he found it so fucking hilarious (he used to tell me let go of her in high school cause I’m wasting time).

Before the bf came back she said we needed to go on a date, just the two of us (exact words, no implications, I figured it was way too weird to be an actual date but I need some feedback on what you guys think it meant, friends seeing as she’s dating, or an actual date?), when he came back she didn’t move, he sat across from her and she proceeded to touch etc, and btw she was 100% sober the entire night (she was driving + took no money for drinks). A few moments later my food was ready and so I left with it, seeing as it was a good escape, didn’t want to eat in front of them + didn’t really want it to get that far.

So yeah, just figured I’d post this weird field test that ended up happening, feedback etc/ improvements WELCOMED!

I’m new to this, like really new to the whole PUA style, she ranked about HB-8, I’m far from ugly (sort of attractive even), but I learned a while ago this does not actually mean as much as most people think, attitude/action has been getting me MUCH farther.

Some things I would really appreciate knowing:

How to improve? How bad was it for a legit first time? Did I miss anything, do anything wrong? Why isn’t it this dam easy with strangers? Any tips at all or is it just natural experience? If I did want it to escalate, what would have been a good path here or in the future? (Not 100% closing the idea of hooking up yet tbh)