Need advice - How do I not overthink before approaching?

sabsdog · 2020-01-31T05:31:14+00:00

Just count 5 and go for it. Remember we are all gonna die and soon none of this will matter. Good luck :)

grrinchas · 2020-01-31T11:57:12+00:00

When I see someone to approach, my first thought is:

"Right. Here we go again..." and I go.

After 3-5 approaches, my first thought is:

"Who is next?"

codewizbambam · 2020-01-31T05:33:22+00:00

The best way to break through this, is actually to learn mindfulness meditation. This will get you rid of way more problems than you can probably imagine right now. There's a book called "Tranquil Mind" by Rob Nairn (not the terribly expensive collectors thing on amazon, you should be able to get it for like 10 bucks or so). It's the best introduction I know. Worked great for me!

Hubblenobbin · 2020-01-31T21:46:21+00:00

Remind yourself that any reasons you come up for not approaching in the moment are complete bullshit. If you doubt this, sit down with pen and paper afterward and write them out. They'll always turn out to be complete bullshit.

Title	Need advice - How do I not overthink before approaching?
Author	laki-94
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 31, 2020 4:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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