So I’ve found that I definitely have a sticking point causing me to get flaked by girls, and I think I know how to solve it but would love to hear your guys’ thoughts.

So basically, it seems to happen a lot to me where I’ll get a girl interested, we plan a date in maybe a week’s time or at the end of the week or something, but when it came the day and time of the date I’d always get flaked.

Like the night before they’d cancel - literally happened twice - or worse, they just don’t reply the day of.

And I think this has been happening because I’m not keeping in touch after we agree to the date - I’d just assume meet and vibe more in person, but i think the radio silence on my end might be causing more tension on her end than i want or need.

So clearly the sticking point here is I’m not “nurturing the lead” to use a marketing term, between the time we plan the date and the date arrives.

I image I should keep texts sparse fun and light before the date, building excitement, planning the date, but also not texting too much or sending long drawn out texts.

I’m not looking to be her texting buddy, but it’s clear that I’m not doing enough at this part of the “funnel” (I really do think of dating like sales don’t I).

I don’t wanna lose another girl because I didn’t follow up in the right way and make her feel comfortable for the date, but text game is definitely a weak point for me.

So. How do you guys do this? What’s your process of minimizing flakes?