So the other day I was dancing all sexy with this one chick at a salsa club, to the point where I was fairly sure I could fuck her. I asked if she wanted to go outside for some fresh air, and she did. I led her outside. Unfortunately, it was incredibly popular for the club that night, and there was a line wrapping around the building. I was trying to get her to a secluded area, when suddenly, she notices some guy she was all happy to see, and starts talking to him all excited.

God damnit, I was totally gonna bang this chick. I remember turning around looking at what had happened, and being upset, seeing my chance fall away. I was also pretty pissed at the chick, I mean, it was pretty obvious what I was leading her around for, we were dancing so dirty it would be surprising if she did not know where things were headed, and all the sudden she has to go and jump into a situation that ruins everything, fuck you bitch!

Now, I could have maybe tried to introduce myself, inject myself into the conversation, but that had such a NEEDY connotation to it, like how am I supposed to make this not obvious that I am trying to tell the guy off and pull the chick away so I can bang her while not coming off emotionally distressed from it? I decided that I don't have good enough spoken game anyway, and so I should just go back inside and see if I can pick up a different chick.

At the time, that really seemed like the right answer, because I was thinking an alpha would not care, because he knows there are other girls he can go pick up and he can afford to toss chicks away. HOWEVER, this does not sit right with me, and honestly, I am starting to see a pattern where I feel like I can bang a chick, but some little hiccup shows up along the way and throws me off and I just give up and look for the next girl. I don't think that is what I should be doing all the time, and I think my lack of trying to push forward, push through, chase, be assertive, or dare I say, BE needy, is ruining my chances with women that I could have otherwise had, if I had just put in more effort. But there in lies the problem. I am a tired guy, I don't have too much energy for this shit, and I already don't have much being an introvert, I just want to take chicks to pound town with little talking. But then again, I notice, I feel like there are several times where women are very much into me, they just require more effort in one way or another. I never know how much, and I always default to saving my energy than spending it on a failed pursuit. I REFUSE to be needy, I won't spend a single god damn dollar on these bitches who make it so hard to do what they themselves even want. I do think I let go of chances too easily, however, and am not sure how to be more assertive without crossing into the needy/pushing too hard zone. I really need some advice on this.