Need some help between acquiring the alpha status rather than the creepy status

tactics · 2011-04-07T14:39:49+00:00

eeling like I'm not interesting enough.

This shows you are having trouble -- or feel like you have trouble -- keeping her attention.

Don't ask, "what can I do to be more interesting?" Instead ask, "why don't I have her full attention?"

I also have trouble with competition.

Don't think of other guys as competition. It puts you in a defensive mindset. You begin to worry about what they are going to do to undermine you.

The reality is most guys aren't thinking that. They are either a) worried about you, or b) they don't see you as a threat.

Strive to be b.

If a guy butts into a conversation with you and the girl, your best option is usually to draw him into a conversation with you. He's there because he wants to talk to the girl. But, if you chat him up, you appear assertive, engaging, and friendly. And unless he wants to appear unsocial, he's forced to reciprocate.

blacksunglasses · 2011-04-07T16:20:26+00:00

Think all girls want to fuck you and so all do guys.

revtrot · 2011-04-07T17:39:52+00:00

First step dont even let the word creepy enter your thoughts. Second step is dress awesome. The better dressed you are the more forgiving women will be. Plus they will notice you.

kalakalakalulu · 2011-04-07T06:14:41+00:00

its almost impossible for normal human beings to 'look' creepy. its all about how you act. the easiest way to remedy any creepiness factor is to simply act as if the conversation you're having is no big deal.

if you're so concerned about competition, just leave the conversation, and come back to the girl later. your body language while talking to the girl should also help alleviate this problem. if you close her off to outsiders and lessen the space between you two, it makes it harder for some random fuck to come up and talk to her, because from the outside it looks like you guys are already having a great time.

krymson · 2011-04-07T07:15:49+00:00

This question seems to be 2 questions, and both are a little too vague.

May i suggest rewording this to be more specific and posting at askSeddit?

Title	Need some help between acquiring the alpha status rather than the creepy status
Author	CookieMan0
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	April 7, 2011 4:54 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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