Need some openers?

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-12-19T13:51:01+00:00

"Girl you look so good I wish I could plant you and grow a whole field of ya'll!"

My god that's great. The cappuccino one was pretty humorous as well.

8sweettooth8 · 2014-12-19T12:33:08+00:00

I shared this for humor but the funny thing is that these would actually work when said correctly (as Will did). He didn't care what the woman thought about him.. he was just being true to himself. It's the way he said the "lines" that made them work... the words you say don't matter at all. It's all in your frame ;)

Happy Friday sedditors :)

azzikid · 2014-12-20T16:13:51+00:00

There are so many different styles that work for opening. You may be a person quick on their feet and able to develop a line that relates to the situation (ie: girl putting sugar in her coffee at a cafe and you start with something clever on that).

I don't find myself able to think so quickly on my feet, particularly when simultaneously dealing with approach anxiety. And I also have a hard time following up on a topic that I started that isn't related to me wanting to escalate with her - how to take it from sugar in coffee to let's go on a date where being friendzoned isn't in the picture.

"Hey, you look really interesting. Let's talk about that."

That's my line. Saying the same thing to everyone allows me to focus my thoughts on getting over approach anxiety. It plays into everyone's ego - yes, I'd love to talk about why I am so interesting! And it helps avoid the friendzone because you are overtly expressing that you are interested in her. If she's open for hanging out again then she knows it is for more than just friends.

Title	Need some openers?
Author	8sweettooth8
Upvotes	12
Comments	3
Date	December 19, 2014 12:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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