Alright I have no idea how I totally go wrong with this online/texting game, but somehow i end up blowing it pretty damn quickly. First of all, I am very comfortable with women in real life, Im considered quite attractive, and i can hold conversation fairly well with most girls. However my problems always begin once i start texting them on the phone, facebook, or tinder.

1) texting. I'll first hit it off quite well with a girl. I get the vibe, she's into me. We exchange the numbers. I mention something like "it would be cool seeing you again, i think we can have a lot of fun together." or something along the lines. She's all like "yeah yeah definitely". I'll give it a few days, im not a needy guy, but ill text her if i think of something we could do together thats interesting. we will chat for a while over text about random shit, and then ill say something like "im gonna be downtown tonight, we should get together sometime if your free." Something around those lines, I dont sound needy or anything, im usually just throwing out the suggestion "hey lets hang out, why the hell not, who cares, we'll have fun, im non threatening, we met before lets just chill"....Then they flake. No response. Nothing. Its rude as fuck and I hate to say but it really pisses me off. If you dont want to hang out, just say that your busy you fucking moron! Jesus Christ dont fucking act like I never asked you anything. I dont know whats going on but it happens way too often and it needs to change.

2) Tinder. 80 matches in less than 2 weeks. Met 3 girls so far. I always think of clever/interesting/funny openings, very rarely do I get a response. I deleted the app, its a waste of time.

3) Facebook. Pretty much the same problem. I'll converse with women, and eventually say something like "lets do bla bla bla bla sometime." theyre all like "Ok yeah that sounds great!" Then they flake. no response, they must've fallen off the face of the Earth. Anyways I really have no idea where im going wrong. The only thing I can guess so far is that I'm not building enough comfort initially when im meeting them. Either that or im just really bad at this technology stuff. Anyway this subreddit seems pretty dead most of the time but if anyones got some advice I'd appreciate it.