Need texting advice

edgarhernandez78 · 2019-09-14T18:35:00+00:00

estoy bien caliente

bemore_ · 2019-09-14T21:01:16+00:00

You're trying to make a girl that likes you like you. Ask her if she wants to do something together whenever

dirtydeadgayjesus · 2019-09-14T16:15:28+00:00

Shes probably interested in you too. Think of something fun to do. Tell her “I’m going to (wherever) later. You should come along, it’ll be fun”

justforreason · 2019-09-14T16:25:48+00:00

Ask her about herself, people love talking about themselves, ask her about her passion what she likes about it, her career, and her childhood to close the deal

axe122 · 2019-09-14T17:15:18+00:00

Send her a random text some funny statement if she’s all tatted send her you were definitely a goth In high school or something then when she responds joke about it however you joke and ask her if she like( insert food) when she says yes say okay good cuz I don’t think we could continue talking if you didn’t like it so when are you free to get together for the food? If she answers the food (chicken parm) and says why say I wanna know what we’ll be eating when we get together then pause let her respond and ask her when she’s free to get together for it honestly you should call to setup the date itself will make you standout from all the guys that are to scared to even call or don’t wanna put any effort in for a phone call but don’t try and text her into liking you it won’t work you’ll have a pen pal for. Few weeks at best and that’s it after you set the date do not call or text her unless she reaches out to you do not text her the day of asking if your still on she’ll one trick I do sometimes is I’ll ask her out over text but tell her I need a phone call before I meet a girl call her the night before the date no more than 8 min your only calling to make sure she can hold a conversation and isn’t boring and you can even tell her that lol she will text you at some point the next day making sure your still on if she’s insecure if she’s super confident she’ll just show up I’ve never been stood up doing this but if you call or text the day of you look weak and she’ll flake o did that many times in the begging good luck and the phone is really for setting dates nothing else(maybe phone sex)

axe122 · 2019-09-14T17:27:55+00:00

Also food doesn’t have to be food make it whatever you want bowling drinks whatever you want your date to be don’t label it a date per day but act as if you both know it is. Follow these rules for texting through the whole relationship even if you make it to be gf if that’s what you looking for she may say she wants to know hear from you all the time and know what your doing on some level that may be true but she will get bored lose interest and probly date you till someone new comes along. Make sure at the very least you go for a kiss on the first date no matter what walk her to her car if you met at the place. Do not ask for a second date the same night as the first date she has to wonder about you and wonder if you actually like her. Girls say they like when a guy texts them the next day or that night and that might be true but they don’t respond to that so do not do not do it wait at least a day unless she contacts you then you know she’s contacting you cuz she wants you to ask her out again do not sit there and have a relationship through text I don’t care what age you are even if it works in the short term it will not work long term I promise you if you text her good morning and goodnight texts your texts have no value at all and she gets annoyed when you message her. After the first successful date with at least a kiss do not text her first unless it’s to set up a date after the dates set don’t text her unless she text you first. Also if you met on Instagram make sure when you see her for the first time in person to give her at least areal hug not a aunt hug or ass out friends hug shell instantly be mores comfortable and your nerves will calm and she’ll be much more receptive.

aaaa2xa · 2019-09-14T20:29:38+00:00

okay before you ask her out look for these. if she replies within 5mins then she probably likes you too. if she takes more than 30mins ur friend zoned or doesn’t want to be mean. if she ignores your texts then she doesn’t like u.

BIGFACTS98 · 2019-09-15T06:06:58+00:00

Give value

You are the buyer NOT the seller

Don't over invest

Keep your goal in mind (date for sex) you aren't her texting buddy

Get her to agree to the general idea of meeting up before attempting to close

Close on positive emotions

When given neutral or negative emotions do not try to push the interaction forward but instead seek to get her invested with positive emotions

Understand there are plenty of fish in the sea if you fuck this up it isn't the end of the world

Title	Need texting advice
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Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	September 14, 2019 3:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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