Neediness and Asperger’s dilemma?

sussykeke · 2022-07-18T19:29:41+00:00

I have a friend who's got AS, same thing happens to him. He's pretty successful in getting women to bed cause he memorized the personality or mask he should put on like a script, mystery method style. He does have problems with oneitis and neediness though cause he seems to want someone to truly like him for who he is which is not possible.

Also I suggest you hit the gym and try to fall in love with the process. People with Asperger's who work out and are serious about it tend to get perfect 10/10 bodies. Cause repetitive workouts are no problem, dialing that diet is like making a perfect master plan and most importantly, building a hot body is like a videogame - consistent rules and results equal to your input

runaround_fruitcop · 2022-07-18T18:57:14+00:00

If you're open to the person, then I they're a good person they'll try to accommodate anything. I have a friend I see who has aspergers and at first I couldn't stand him then he opened up to me about it and I do my best to help him navigate things, while also making sure he doesn't overwhelm me.

Everyone deserves a chance. But sometimes being open about certain aspects of your character may dispell negative assumptions

MermaidOfScandinavia · 2022-07-18T23:15:17+00:00

I have AS and have dated guys who has AS. I think its important to at least try to learn to adapt improve your skills. It's just seems like most AS guys either can't or won't even try learn. I have met the expectations but they are rare. Masking all day is exorsting so I get why some people choose to be stubborn and say my way or the high way.

Title	Neediness and Asperger’s dilemma?
Author	CatholicRevert
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	July 18, 2022 6:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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