So this post is for people just getting into pick-up.

A lot of times when I talk to my friends about negs they don't understand it. The "Backhanded Compliment" seems hard to do for some people so I want to put it out there how to actually do this, because this is something I have become quite good at if I do say so myself.

SO I'm just going to write several examples that I have ACTUALLY USED that work very well.

[HB] So i'm studying Horse Science (yes that's a real major at my school) [Chord] I'm guessing you like horses? [HB] Yeah! :) blah..blah..yadda...yadda... [Chord] We can't be friends. [HB] What? Why?! You don't like horses??? [Chord] There's just something about people that like horses that I don't like On Halloween [Chord] What are you supposed to be [HB] I'm a blah...blah.. [Chord]Looks her up and down disapprovingly Oh. [HB] What?!?!? I AM!!

Basically anything that a girls says you can turn it into a neg. my formula is usually as follows: 1. Ask a unique question that engages them like "So what are you passionate about?" 2. Because they are invested in their answer and whatever they say they're going to be sharing personal info about themselves so they want validation that it is cool, plus the usual response people use is oh that's awesome. So instead of being predictable you say "Really? you LIKE that?" They'll get all butthurt about it but you just gotta keep being playful. 3. NEVER say "no, I'm just kidding" but make it implied by being playful and smiley. Just make up some BS reasons why you don't like it. 4. At this point, you can most times engage in kino because your response will be "it's ok, I still love you playful armtouch/side hug/hug"

Hope this helps, feel free to ask any questions.