...while you are only an option. This gets it to the point, clear and sharp. I have failed this so many times. And it always nags to see that you have given more than you received back, and subtracts from your self-esteem. On the top ten list of "What my parents should have told me but didn't..." Will keep this engraved in my mind even if I have to get it tattooed to my palms to always remember.