So I've had this recent issue that I've noticed a trend in. When escalating, I tend to go too fast, too quickly.

For example, the other day I was talking to a woman casually in a bar. sex positions came up and she said she likes being on top.

Me: What's your favorite position?

Her: Being on top

Me: I like tying girls up, I'd tie you up.

Her: Where?

Me: In my car, then I'd fuck you a bit there, and then to my bed, and I'd do you doggy style there.

Her: Ok

Me: Then I'd make you suck my dick.

Immediately, the girl has a very harsh reaction and tells me I need to stop.

I've had incidents several times like this. The question is, where do I know where I need to draw the line, and what do I do if I cross it?

Thanks