What are your thoughts on Nick Sparks?

I got linked too a few of his vids recently as i'm trying to work out why I get rejected at the open quite a lot.

I'm trying my best to 'learn' from my rejections, but it's kind of hard. Not least because the exact same approaches can work on some girls (i.e - They are willing to talk to me) but get instant rejections with others. How can one learn anything from that sort of data? And what do I try to change? The words I use to open? Try smiling more? Or smiling less?

Nick Sparks seems to look at it in the same way as me. I mean, lots of people tell me that my 'vibe' must be off, or that I must have 'inner game' issues' but he says that the girls knows from the second she looks at you whether she'll possibly sleep with you or not. If it's a 'no', then she'll likely reject you straight away no matter how good your vibe/inner game is.

He also says that 60% of the time, the rejection is down to HER. Nothing that you did wrong. e.g - She thinks you're not her type physically, she's on her period, she's in a bad mood, she's got a boyfriend etc etc

He says you turn too a girl and say ''I like your headband'' and she'll either be like 'Thanks'' and look away with a stone face, or she'll light up and be like ''Thanks!! I bought it at bala bla bla bla'' It's nothing to do with you...It's all about HER! In both instances, your words and vibe are identical.

I guess it's a bit like the Mark Mansons idea of the 'yes', 'no', and 'maybe' girls.

I'm torn between the ideas of ''I must be doing something wrong. I need to change things. But I don't know what exactly. Or how best to actually make these 'changes' and learn from the results''

And

''Screw it. The rejections are just 'no girls'. I'm not doing anything wrong, because it's not as if I get rejected 100% of the time after my open. Just a hell of a lot, but it's not my fault. They are 'no girls''''