No problem attracting women; how do I keep them long term?

bandsupjay · 2021-02-20T21:27:10+00:00

Just make sure you’re never giving them validation or showing them that really like them or the challenge is over. Hit her up once every week, skip weeks sometimes to keep her uncertain about where she stands with you. Its just building attachments and keeping her chasing your validation.

Captain_w00t · 2021-02-20T20:12:48+00:00

It usually happens when you aren’t really into someone. When you meet someone that you start seeing as the “right one”, then you won’t look for alternatives.

It’s also a matter of age. If you’re young, it comes natural to not stick with the first one (and I agree).

If they ghost you, they weren’t into you. If you ghost them, you weren’t into them.

Just learn from experience, with time you’ll learn about what you want from a partner.

TosACoinToYourSwitch · 2021-02-20T21:09:11+00:00

You hold yourself back. The funny, flirty, and laid back is your persona that you wear, its probably an idealized version of yourself rather than like fully genuine, the wasting time so you cut off contact is a huge clue. Like I cut off flakey women as well, its not out of fear its just analysis, if you flake you're not interested enough, I move on.

You wanna keep a girl around you need to figure out what kinda girls actually wanna date someone like you, or figure out what kinda girls you wanna date and be more like someone they wanna date (self improvement not faking) and then seek an actual connection. Connection comes from being honest and vulnerable without being like whiny or fragile about it when you're talking to someone who's into people like you.

Title	No problem attracting women; how do I keep them long term?
Author	renny811
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	February 20, 2021 8:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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