No self esteem

dbastrid100 · 2024-08-16T13:02:40+00:00

There's no hack or cheat code to gain more confidence and increase your self esteem. It can only be achieved through hard work. Or you could give off the illusion of confidence by just not caring so much. Test and experiment with different strategies.

Background_Carry_935 · 2024-08-16T07:45:49+00:00

Get Therapy, that was a tough read. I’m sorry you went through that

zebekias · 2024-08-16T11:56:26+00:00

Try to find “Deep inner game” by David Deangelo. Old but good.

If you are an ok looking man with a decent career but struggling with women, my experience is that it can be fixed so long you commit to doing whatever it takes. You can use training wheels (seduction community ebooks/videos/audios) to engineer small successes. The small successes will raise your confidence and self esteem. The higher confidence will raise your game. It’s a feedback loop.

Spiritual-Smoke-9498 · 2024-08-16T13:28:06+00:00

Hint : That’s shame

2024-08-16T21:35:44+00:00

There’s no quick fix to gaining confidence if your Dad never instilled it in you. It’s a long and hard road.

You have to do extremely uncomfortable things in order to gain a sense of masculine esteem. Reading books is great, and I would totally recommend you read as much self help books as you can, but it means nothing if you don’t apply the material to your everyday life. It’s a common theme among this genre, and all the authors even say it themselves. If you can understand the evolutionary reasons for low self esteem , then you’ll start to understand that the reinforcement of low self esteem isn’t even real. It’s just a survival mechanism.

TheDesiPlayboy · 2024-08-17T21:30:54+00:00

Confidence comes from repeated exposure. Start talking to women. You will suck at first, but over time you will improve. Then you will be confident.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-08-16T05:32:53+00:00

Why is your self esteem and confidence low when the evidence clearly tells you that you're an attractive guy since you get approached?

southparkslope · 2024-08-17T02:08:34+00:00

Try this book - Healing the shame that binds you

Working_Potential_26 · 2024-08-16T16:26:05+00:00

Fuck therapy

Working_Potential_26 · 2024-08-16T16:27:47+00:00

You gotta find out what you like in life and dive into it a bit more.. what ever you like in life .. at one point you will love and at one point you will have a burning passion for it.. enough to be good or great even elite at it.. that will boost your self esteem and confidence..

Gain some friends and ask them what works for them and try it out (when it comes to women) learn learn learn learn.. never stop learning and applying !!!!!!!!!!!!

You will gain experience and momentum this momentum will make you feel different .. like you’re on the high train .. you will get more confident . More bold more quick witted..

But surround yourself around what you like !!!! You will feel better day to day and have something to look forward to ..

That builds self esteem, self reliance , discipline, courage, tactics - strategies - it goes on ..

Title	No self esteem
Author	Ok_Click4158
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	August 16, 2024 4:29 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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