The main goal I had in mind when putting this together was to create a general "Grand Unified Seddit Theory" - bringing together every important piece of information to know from some of the best and brightest PUA's, coaches, and other "all-stars" so-to-speak and boiling it down in an easily understood way for beginners and experts alike to learn from and relate to. Think of this as a "crash course" in Seddit theory. Reading each part will open your eyes to the similarities and differences of everyone's style of game. The funny thing is, they all work. Reading through these should give you some background knowledge and advice to provide the building blocks for improving yourself and your overall game. I really enjoyed putting this together, and i'm sure you will learn a lot.

This is part 1 of 6, I will attempt to shorten and simplify each AMA into it's own personal section in every part in order to provide a greater picture of the slight differences and nuances of each of these individuals, with some brief descriptions on the side to provide context. I will post each part as I complete them, I have responsibilities to deal with outside of seddit, but i'll do the best I can.

Part 2

I may include an additional part 7 with my overall interpretation of this material, and to provide my own methods, styles, and outlook to mesh this all together.

It's important to remember that everyone has a slightly different approach and style to game and pickup; i've always found it interesting how many different ways there are to "catch a fish". I felt that this is the best medium in order to present that.

---AMA 1, Nick Savoy, "Love Systems"---

(On how you will grow/rate of growth in the game of pickup) Personal favorite

"Any guy who has had to learn how to succeed with women from the ground up will tell you that it’s not a steady, straight-line improvement. You don’t get 2% better every day than you did before. There are long periods of feeling you’re not making much progress, then BANG something clicks."

(On PUA's who claim 100% success rate)

"I’ve never seen anyone have 100% or anything close to it. Say you walk into a bar or a party and there are five gorgeous women there. You should be able to either leave with or get the kind of solid phone number that will turn into a date that will actually happen with at least one of them, ideally two."

(Notable quote)

"Keep in mind that the harder an approach looks, the fewer other guys are probably doing it."

(On Day Game)

"In a couple sentences, in Day Game keep it short, 10-15 minutes and make plans for later. Go “direct” if you can. Body language and facial expressions are even more important than normal, because it’s usually light out, no one is drinking, and you’re likely to feel more nervous."

(On applying pick-up to LTR's) "TOP 10 SEDDIT AMA QUOTES" MATERIAL

"I think all the skills matter, because once you take the training wheels off, Love Systems is a lot about developing better social instincts. The guys who talk about how “pick up” is different from “relationships” are the same guys who are arguing whether some girl is a 9.2 or a 9.3 and whether it’s better to use neg hit alpha or use your +3 armor. This is life, not a video game. I guess what I’m trying to say is that the overall broad strategies translate from pick up to relationships just like they translate from pick up to business networking or from pick up to sales. The specific tactics don’t translate at all"

---AMA 2, David Wygant---

"A confident man actually has nothing to prove. An arrogant man is always trying to prove that he is confident."

(On learning to use your voice and eyes properly around women)

"Read and start to learn how to use your voice to be more powerful. record yourself everyday and listen and ask your self would you be interested in you. do this everyday and you will get there"

"When you first meet a woman and you start speaking sex, you look like a pervert. Here's the deal, you need to realize the power of voice tone and eye contact. if your voice tone and eye contact is that of a strong confident man, and you listen and react to what she is all about and what she is saying, then guess what? You turned her on sexually. Men like to hear all the time how much a woman is craving their dick. Woman want to be heard and understood, if you understand them, their entire sexual being will open up."

(On David's failures in pickup) Personal Favorite

"What are my failures? Actually thinking I could have any woman and trying to bat 100%. Life does not work that way at all. Life is all about connecting and finding great women to hang with and to stop wasting time with the ones that are a pain in the ass."

(Notable quotes)

"You need to crawl before you walk and talk"

"Life is a date and you need to romance everyone you meet."

---AMA 3, Brad Branson, "RSD"---

"One of the main truisms of social dynamics is, “it’s only a big deal if you make it one.” As long as you own whatever you are doing, she will follow suit. People are conditioned through out life to follow the lead of the most decisive person."

(On attracting "hot" girls) "She just meets cool dudes more often, it’s not a big deal. So you are less likely to get as many outwardly obvious positive indicators that she likes you. This is why a lot of guys have problems with hotter girls. They think that something is different. They think they are doing something wrong. Hot girls don’t respond in the same way. But that’s not because you are doing something wrong, they actually like you just as much. It’s just not as big of a deal to them. So you have to develop the self trust, self reliance, that you are doing the right thing."

"Probably the biggest epiphany I’ve had over the past year or two was realizing how important your tone of voice is for building attraction. It INSTANTLY changes how a student interacts with women once he embraces the technique."

(On definition of a strong identity) Personal Favorite

"Reference points. You need life experiences to confirm this. So you need to GET OUT AND TAKE ACTION! Go get as many reference points as possible. Another side of this though, is that how you interpret your reality is COMPLETELY ARBITRARY. So you might have a lot more positive reference points than you think."

(Drawing "state" from within yourself) Personal Favorite

"Bring the party from within, and you will draw people in. If you are reliant on the external environment, or a girls reaction, you are following her lead, you are falling into her frame. So how do you get better at not relying on the girl's responses to feel good? You have to stop trying to get specific reactions from the girl."

"ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. It’s HOW you say it, not what you say."

---AMA 4, MaysonNSS, "New Social Systems"---

"Happiness comes from inside of you and no one can give it to you. Like all emotions, they come from the inside out and NOT the outside in. I found passion in who I was and put my value on the internal rather than the external things that are feeling."

"Failure is not in getting "rejected" from the girl, failure is allowing yourself to feel bad about it. Often times in my life I have learned that experience is the greatest teacher not the outcome." Personal Favorite

"She is JUST another girl, not special in anyway (for the most part :P) Start by taking a couple deep breaths when you are about to approach and DON"T ASSUME ANYTHING. You don't know the truth of how the interaction is going to go and if you project your false assumptions you are only going to pollute the interaction."

"Beauty is more than skin deep. I felt like such a terrible person and learned that people no matter how attractive they are have issues that you and I cannot see. From that moment on I decided to be a value GIVER rather than a value TAKER."

"Boiling down what makes someone successful it all comes down to DRIVE... If you are driven to succeed you will. I say to students all the time that "can't" means "won't"... A person who is successful has drive, plain and simple."

(On not taking rejection personally) Personal Favorite

"Whatever happens around you don’t take it personal. If someone tell you that you are ugly it is not about you. You take it personally because you agree what it says and when you do that you become trapped by THEIR opinion. Taking things personally is the maximum expression of selfishness because we think everything is about me. Nothing other people do is because of you. All people live in their own reality; when we take something personally we make the assumption that they know our world."

(Learn to express your emotional self at times)

"Women are creatures of emotion NOT logic. She is looking for emotional feelings from you and if you don't allow any emotion to come about you are going to come off as creepy at some point."

---AMA 5, Rob Judge---

(On the right mindset before going out at night)

"But honestly, I just usually let myself feel the excitement of a night out. I usually like to think to myself that there's probably a girl getting ready to go out tonight who I'm going to end up with. That thought alone usually amps me up to go out and meet women."

(On getting girls to stay attracted to you)

"If girls are losing interest after a day or two, it probably means you're getting them attracted, but you aren't becoming "real" to them. In other words, you're not forming a significant and meaningful connection. I'd recommend that AFTER you attract and escalate that you also balance your approach with a solid connection. Bond over shared emotions, NOT logical facts about your life. Tell her childhood memories or tell her about how you felt when heard you got your job, whatever...just be sure to make a connection with her that's emotionally charged. Oh, and listen to her! It's not emphasized enough, but listening is a seriously underrated skill in pickup! Don't "over-game" yourself out of great interactions. Give her the bandwidth to game you back and you won't have this happen anymore."

(On looks and insecurities)

"Every guy is insecure about his looks to some extent. Whatever your insecurity is, you'll see in the response you get. Make yourself as good looking as you can, and then work on your approach."

(Determining if she likes you)

"If I really want to find out if a girl likes me or not, I just "prime" her. Basically, you just make a sexual comment and see how she responds. If you have any social intelligence, you will be able to figure out if she likes you based on how she responds."

(Social situations are dynamic, and they change rapidly. Be ready) Personal favorite

"Any guy who consistently goes out probably knows that social situations are fluid...you can never prepare for every response, in every situation, from every girl. Focus more on genuinely appreciating the girl in front of you. Once you lock-down a girl for the night, turn the "community" part of your brain off. Stop thinking about approaches. Stop thinking about social dynamics. Stop thinking about anything other than how awesome this beautiful girl is in front of you."