I ask this as a semi-rhetorical question.

For example, over the past 3 years, my lay count stands at 9 girls. While a lot of guys might scoff at that number, I'm perfectly content with this - I don't measure my sexual fulfillment in ways that other guys commonly do.

At the same time, however, i'm not actively looking to bed as many girls as possible. I'm more of a "if it happens, it happens" type guy.

I'm also in a situation where I have a fulfilling friends-with-benefits situation with a girl this semester who I share amazing romantic sex with on a daily basis (she's also deathly attractive, and could be an underwear model, though she doesn't believe me when I tell her)... I guess i'm just not actively seeking anything sexual with new girls right now.

It just feels like I have a much more passive mindset with game now. I go out to college parties Fridays and Saturdays and have an awesome time socializing with tons of people and gaming girls. I also make an effort to socialize in the day-time outside of parties with girls whom i've befriended with on campus.

Who knows? Maybe when I graduate and move to a bigger city, things will change, and so will my mindset towards pickup. All I know is, right now i'm satisfied.

I'm sure I can't be alone thinking this way. What do you guys think?