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| 1 | London mutual wingman needed to hit clubs...I've had more success going out alone than with friends. You build up thick skin, and a stronger affinity for socializing with people you don't know. I'd rather be weird and successful than normal and unsuccessful. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | London mutual wingman needed to hit clubs...Why not just go out by yourself? You can learn more in one night being on your own than 5 nights with people. | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 08:53 PM |
| 14 | How to Ask Girl Out if She's Always With FriendsIt's not that simple. If the girls are close, they can quickly shut you out for being a creep. Also, you can't go from "Let me talk to you for a sec" to "Can I take you out on a date?" in 5 seconds. That's not how this stuff works. Not only is this extreme approval seeking and desperate, it's just done way too quickly and sloppily. If you want any chance at rapport building and actually making a connection, find a way to isolate her from the crowd of girls after receiving approval from the group… | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Top 5 Reasons PUA Advice Doesn’t Work For Most MenAs someone who has been involved with game for several years and has had success, I agree with some of these. However, I have issues with what you discussed in "taking consistent action". Look, at its base level, this is important to some degree. It can be important that you follow certian goals and guidelines when getting involved with this kind of stuff the first time, and it also can be important that you take consistent action... If you're just starting out. That being said, a lot of guys ha… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I'm basically at the point where I can approach women in bars and clubs no problem. Daytimes a different story...I'm just not a believer in canned lines. There's so much more you could say in any situation to approach, and you go with the one statement that gives away your intentions right off the bat. I'm not saying this doesn't ever work (there are no "nevers" or "always" in pickup) but it just gives off the wrong vibe to a girl right from the start. I also say this because i've used canned lines like the one you mentioned in the past and they just don't work the same way that a naturalistic observation … | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 07:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm basically at the point where I can approach women in bars and clubs no problem. Daytimes a different story...Hey, I know this is random, but you look cute and I had to say hi This line is so overused in pickup, and it screams of unoriginality. It also gives away the game right off the bat; that's no fun! I'll repeat this because it's worth mentioning again: the situation dictates your response. Thinking along these lines, it forces you to think in abstract ways toward approaches and challenges you to pay attention to the girl and her surroundings. There's literally a thousand different ways you could a… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I'm basically at the point where I can approach women in bars and clubs no problem. Daytimes a different story...Both are possible, and i've had success from both. The main differences are the style of approach and your attitude. I find it's actually easier to approach women in the daytime due to their natural defenses being down. Many women get approached more at night due to the prevelance of alcohol and because of the schema that surrounds nightlife in general. I find the best way to interact with women in the daytime is to make natural observations about her that don't necessarily involve compliments. … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 07:06 PM |
| 2 | A success that suddenly stops being a success. Let's try to understand this tricky behavior.So just continue seeing other girls and live your life, don't obsess over this girl because girls hate that, women find it attractive when she knows you have options. What this guy said x10. A lot of problems with women boils down to how scarce you believe your options are. You don't necessarily have to be bedding three females a day to have this inner-confidence (though, that would help!), it's more about creating a mindset within yourself that says "There are billions of women on this planet, … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Girls tell me the like guys who dance/dance with them, but behave the opposite way. Why is that?Girls often say a lot of things, but that doesn't necessarily equate to how they feel. For one, asking a girl to dance is extremely nerve-racking on her end - imagine what she could be thinking? "What does this guy expect out of me?", "I'll bet he's just a creep.", "What will my friends think of me?", "What if he's touchy?" In my experience, you need to be a leader and show her a good time, you don't ask for a good time - you just have it with her. What does it say about you when you have to go … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:40 PM |
| 12 | Met a Girl at the Gym, Confused and Need Your HelpSounds like she's not interested, otherwise, there would be more going on than just a single text. What likely happened is you didn't invest yourself emotionally enough into the initial interaction to warrant her wanting to have open dialogue with you via text. Many girls nowadays will just give out their number willy-nilly as long as you aren't an anti-social pleb (i.e, just to "be nice"). However, I don't know the full story of your interaction, so I can only give you a simple answer. At this … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | My college days are limited, I don't know where else to turnI'm 24 and finishing up my final year. I can tell you straight up that nobody cares how old you are What matters is how you present yourself to others, which happens to be true for the real world as well. Just do you. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 09:04 PM |
| 15 | I've been told and rated that I'm good looking and attractive, but I still can't get laid or get dates with girls.I have a wild theory, bear with me on this one: Maybe it's because looks don't have as much of an effect on attraction as you think they do ;) Read the sidebar, friend! | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 06:19 PM |
| 14 | Where to take girls if I don't have anything exciting going on?Atrocious grammar and sentence structure aside, this is good advice. Have my upvote. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 11:43 PM |
| 6 | How do I handle girls who say they have boyfriends but then proceed to flirt with me?Basically I met a girl at a bar last night and we had a decent conversation. I asked for her number and she said "I have a boyfriend so hopefully that doesn't change your mind" I've had this happen often - this is a classic frame-test. She's screening you out to see how much you'll push through. I'm not suggesting all girls will cheat, but some are more persuadable than others depending on the type of relationship she has with him. The truth is a lot of guys who aren't versed/experience in game … | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:50 AM |
| 5 | How did they have sex with girls after only speaking for 10 minutes?I've made out with a girl within a minute of meeting her on the dancefloor, and i've been in other situations where i've made out with other girls in 15-minute periods within meeting them. Point is: Sometimes, you just feel that energy with someone, and run with it. It's not so much as the things you say most of the time, it's the emotional space you're coming from and putting out into the world around you. Other times, it may take you several hours to reach that point. A lot of pickup is contex… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely sensitive to being ignored and I fucking hate itYou don't need to pay money for a program to become dependent and self-supportive. This promotes the opposite effect. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 11:49 PM |
| 33 | I am extremely sensitive to being ignored and I fucking hate itWhy so selfish? And I'm not saying that as a personal jab to you, I'm saying it because of the way you're describing your "problem" - you're making it sound like these girls should, at the drop of the hat, get back to you ASAP as if they don't have a life of their own. Take a moment and put yourself in the girl's shoes. She's likely getting texts from 5-6 different people at a time (half of which are likely guys), while at the same time living her life in the real world. My girlfriend frequently… | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Is lay count really a valuable metric for success in pickup?You also have to account for FWB situations, which means multiple lays with one girl. Can't that be seen as just as valuable? | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | High energy vs low energy in nightclubs?Good bot :) | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 10:20 PM |
| 0 | High energy vs low energy in nightclubs?stand out from all the other guys that just stand near the walls and look at girls as well You answered your own question, in a weird way. Adjust your body language and positioning (stand out) from the rest of the guys (don't walk near walls). Walk around the imagined "center" of the room; most people's eyes are centered towards this area anyway. You will get the most visual exposure. From the general center of the room, you're in a better position to approach than the guys standing near the wal… | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I completely lose interest in a girl if I see here flirting/laughing with another guy. What is this?A scarcity mindset is a blanket term; it means more than just "tunnel vision" or one-itis. The mentality OP has is stemming from deeper seeded insecurity, as he put it. Insecurity is a common symptom of scarcity. The issue with having scarcity is it lends root to other problems: jealousy and judgment to name a few. Looking at this from another angle, would someone who has three side-chicks ready to go at moments notice care if a girl decided to go off and have a good time with another guy? In a … | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 10:03 PM |
| 12 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Approaching HOT Russian Women In Novosibirsk"Pickup guru youtuber" starter pack: [DAY-GAME/NIGHT-GAME INFIELD FOOTAGE] "Approaching/seducing" "GORGEOUS, HOT, SEXY WOMEN" "in [insert semi-unheard of city/town here]" "Pulled/number-closed" | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 08:09 PM |
| 11 | I completely lose interest in a girl if I see here flirting/laughing with another guy. What is this?Because you're living in a mindset of "scarcity" On the flipside, If you were living in a mindset of "abundance", you would realize that it doesn't matter how the outcome of the interaction goes. You would realize that there's the next one waiting in line. The attitude you're describing is an attitude I used to have until I realized game and pickup aren't all about you. There's going to be times when a girl just wants a good conversation and nothing more. There's going to be times when a girl wa… | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Learn to LET GO of petty BS you experience with girls!You are like a great product with a mediocre marketer. I hate to sound capitalist but you have to believe in you and sell yourself accordingly. Funny, I just posted a brief piece on exactly this concept a few days ago. Didn't get any exposure, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Advice for 22yo guy unfamiliar with dating culture/normsIt sounds to me like you've thought about this a lot. You're in the right place, first and foremost. The best place to start would be reading any of the side-bar information, specifically under the "New here?" section. Once you familiarize yourself with some of the content there, take some of it to practice. Don't make the habit of over-analyzing this information, as it's easy to do considering the amount of knowledge you can find on this topic around the web. "Putting it into practice" for you … | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Seducing a male friend, getting mixed signals!Exactly. If you two are friends, then bringing up this sort of thing won't be a deal-breaker. If anything, he could welcome the honesty. You have nothing to lose here. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Seducing a male friend, getting mixed signals!You just need to be direct with him. Obviously, there's chemistry between you two, otherwise kissing wouldn't be happening. He could just be afraid to take the next step. Coax him a bit. Ask him about that night. Depending on the response he gives you with that, you can gauge where to go from there. Beating around the bush with this kind of stuff is a waste of your and his time and energy. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Are there any benefits to completely ignoring a text?Everyone has a different style to texting. There is no 100% right or wrong way to do it, although there are definitely things you should not do. So are there benefits? Not necessarily. Are there drawbacks? Maybe a few. All of this is context-dependent (i.e., how well you know the person, how well she knows you, how much emotional investment you share with that person, how much attraction you share with each other, etc.) A good rule of thumb to follow with texting is: Don't be a dick, and don't o… | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I even seduce a girl :/Read the sidebar, friend :) Go nuts! Just remember, that you can read as much as you want about this kind of stuff, but unless you put it into consistent practice, the knowledge will remain unsynthesized, and therefore, a waste of mental space. You work out, here's an analogy: You don't gain muscle by just sitting at your computer and looking up fitness guides all day (though learning has its place); you go out and bust your ass in the gym. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | If you ever get rejected, remember what this woman says.Let me direct you to the sidebar to help you find what you're looking for. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 10:25 PM |
| 5 | For those that approach A LOT, does it really improve the quality and success of your approaches?It feels like everyone has a "number" they reach with approaches where, once they pass that threshold, the quality and success of your approaches improve, and the pressure and anxiety emanating inside you will slowly dissipate around girls. This "threshold number" for guys is based on a few things, I theorize: Your attractiveness (facial structure and composition), body weight and build (thin, thick, skinny-muscular, buff-muscular, etc.) Your baseline confidence, i.e. how confident you feel with… | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 10:08 PM |
| 16 | If you ever get rejected, remember what this woman says.I think you're in the wrong sub. Sounds like r/redpill would be more suited for you. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 08:04 PM |
| 46 | If you ever get rejected, remember what this woman says.That's not what OP is implying. The point of the post is to not blame every rejection on yourself. Sometimes it's just a case of "wrong person", "wrong time", or both. Gotta take some L's every now and then before you get to the W's | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)Now it's just establish rapport, grab the number, build some more interest before vanishing back into the crowd. So much easier. Yes, exactly. When you're out alone, nobody is holding you accountable for what you do or say. There's a level of social confidence that builds throughout the night when by yourself. You definitely reach a special "flow" state at some point in the night doing this. It feels otherworldly. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)It really feels liberating. Also, happy cakeday. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)Yes! Someone who gets it. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)That's just how it turned out. The interactions ranged from complimenting or commenting girls walking by (just to get some social momentum going), while other interactions ranged from 5-10 minutes with varying amounts of physical interaction. You just have to keep throwing shit at the wall until something sticks. Some instances worked better than others. Every night is going to be different. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)My point was it's all about perception. I felt I had a great night overall. Yeah, the night wasn't perfect - no night ever is. That's what makes this stuff so entertaining. I'll give you another take on this: I would be more disappointed in myself sitting in my room dicking around on my laptop for that same 5 hours, than to go out and do this crazy shit. I'll take this experience 100 times out of a 100. Also, sorry for coming across like a dick in that comment (reading it over now makes me feel … | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)It was an eventful night, full of ups and downs. That's what made it enjoyable, to me at least. Judging by your post history, i'm going to guess a "good night" for you consists of overwatch and browsing reddit for 5 hours straight, considering you don't frequent this subreddit. You do you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)I didn't, it wasn't realistic to do that anyway. She lived at a sorority house nearby, but the uber was already paid for. The interaction with her lasted a minute and a half, tops. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 03:11 PM |
| 4 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)I had a fun night. I can get my bank card back, not worried about it since I don't need it right now. I had an epic time moving around the campus district - so many interactions with people I didn't even know. It felt empowering to just do your own thing. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 03:09 PM |
| 22 | Friends don't want to go out with you? So what! (why you should embrace going out alone)Quick field report: After posting this, I left my college town of 3,500 to the city of Syracuse (27,000 students) to party. In the 5 hours I spent there, I: Spent $90 (70 of which were from ubering there and back) Cold approached probably over 80+ girls Made out with a random asian girl I met on the street with her friends (after about an hour of interacting with her. Nearly closed, but she felt sick toward the end of the night, so I let it go) Got a snapchat from a girl I met earlier in the nig… | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Let me clarify: Wana' buy your parents that new high rise penthouse in NYC? No. And I don't think they want to live in the city anyway. They're happy where they are Get your dad that lambo he's always wanted? My dad is happy with his 1967 Chrysler New Yorker Deluxe, and his leased Corolla (and inheritance from my grandfather). Again, no. Cover all expenses and fly your friends out for a week to Ibiza to dine out at the best restaurants? I don't give a genuine shit about fancy restaurants, and i'… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Well, I have a whopping $800 in my checking account, and i'm pretty fucking happy with my life right now. So yeah. You do you man. | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".1) It helps me sleep 2) Sets the tone for the next day. I definitely don't feel as groggy when I wake up; I feel more "aware" | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".For a collage student? Got nuthin' for yah, brah. For a college student? Go out and socialize. Get to know people. Don't necessarily run "game", but just make an effort to be a social person and "advertise" yourself a little bit. College is a good place for consistent practice in game until you get to the real world. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Literally, if you just spent 10 minutes of genuine research on this topic, you would know what I know about this. It's not rocket science. Or maybe you can just go throughout life thinking "mo money, mo happiness". Your call, broheim. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".The title of a starter pack I was looking at on r/starterpacks :) | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".It is what it is, mayne. I thought it was cool, so I posted it. I guess most other people agree. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".You obviously have a lot to learn about human psychology. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Hey man, you can believe what you want. I said "sexually intimate" because there were some girls who just gave me straight head rather than having sex. I'm not here to gain internet points and be all like "yo dawg, I just slayed some puss the past two years". This shit isn't a dick-size contest. The same shit could be said about you. But you don't see me going around nit-picking things people say to "disprove" they had sex. You seem like a smart guy judging from your post history, and knowledgab… | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".I'll give you another analogy. Say all of a sudden, someone gave you a "love potion", and every girl around you wanted to fuck the living shit out of you. Meanwhile, you haven't had sex in a year. Naturally, you'd be like "oh FUCK YEAH". 10 girls later... "Word. This is pretty cool" 10 more girls later "I mean, it's whatever" 20 more girls "This is getting repetitive" 20 more "Alright, for real, just stop." 20 more "GET THE FUCK OFF OF ME" | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Because there's science to back it up. There has been a plethora of research done on this topic. A quick google search will give you your answer. Basically, after you reach a certain point of wealth, happiness plateaus and remains constant (once you can afford the basic necessities, i.e food, water, shelter, clothing). Researchers found, on average, once you get past the "50k a year" mark, it doesn't matter whether you make 1 million a year, or 1 billion a year. Your happiness will balance out n… | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 04:34 AM |
| 7 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".I guess you just have a different perspective on life. This kind of thing is really just for fun, it's not meant to be reflective, unless you make it out to be. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 11:08 PM |
| 12 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".I didn't even remember that I did this until it popped up in my email. The content I remembered, but now I just interpret it differently. I think that's the point of the site. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Is abundance demonstrated purely through in-person interaction? Or can you further demonstrate this through social media, like instagram?Abundance mentality is more mental than physical. It's about knowing that there's 3.75 billion females on this planet, and that if you screw up with one, statistically speaking, there's several billion more opportunities you're going to have. Showing abundance is good. Believing you have abundance is gold. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:43 PM |
| 126 | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".To clarify, what has changed since then: I don't find myself going through any bullshit I don't have "girlfriends" per-say, but I do have two girls who i'm engaging in sexual intimacy with. (Call them FWB) I don't have a job because i'm enrolled in my last semester at college, so that's a wash. I don't have a ton of friends, but I know a lot of people here on campus (and a lot know me), compared to when I first transferred here two years ago. I don't have a lot of personal possessions, but I rea… | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:39 PM |
| 2 | How to take more space in a group?Work out, you physically take up more visual space if you're a bigger person. I'm not saying you need to be a massive dude, or get fat, but shoulder-to-waist ratio is similarly visually appealling to girls as hip-to-waist ratio is to guys. There's science to back this up Obviously, this "bigness" won't come overnight, so in the meantime, learn to incorporate more dominant body language as you talk with people. This will make you seen as a bigger target to people, and girls will pick up on this. … | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 12:52 AM |
| 5 | I nearly lost my shit todayDo these three things, and you won't be hung up on one girl for more than a minute, tops. 1) Meditate Even if it's for 2 minutes a day, it gives you a chance to recollect and reorganize your thoughts. Think of your thoughts as if they were a crazy dog. By meditating, you're putting it on a leash and yanking it back to you (being your conscious thought). 2) Work out daily Helps with self-confidence, as well as external aesthetics. Lets be real: scientifically speaking, a man with a solid shoulder… | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 02:46 AM |
| 5 | I nearly lost my shit todayThere's over 3.75 billion females on this earth, and you're shaken up over one? Abundance. Mentality. The sooner you can forget about this chick, the sooner you can hit it off with the next one who actually gives a shit. Boom. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | After five years of personal development I can confidently say that mindfulness is perhaps the most important skill I have learned in regards to self-mastery. Not just sitting meditation but a practical everyday kind of mindfulness. This is my summary.Good post, but the only part I would disagree with is the "I feel horny so I masturbate to porn". You lumped it in with things that are bad, but this practice of masturbation by itself isn't inherently bad. It's bad when it becomes an issue that you can't control, or when it's taking over your lifestyle or mindset. Nonetheless, this practice comes down to being mindful of how much or how little you're doing it. It's not a bad thing in and of itself. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 02:25 AM |
| 21 | Uber Driver's Sage AdviceBelieve it or not, this post showed up on my reddit feed just below an r/psychology post talking about avoiding your fears. Link | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Developing God Tier Eye Contact | The real reason why you can't maintain strong eye contact with a womenOh, sorry. I didn't know my opinion was less valuable than yours because I choose to endluge in a leisurely activity that is completely normal for billions of people. | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 10:26 PM |
| 4 | I have no urge to "game?""I just feel like it should be worrying about having fun with my life instead of focusing strictly on pickup" I think you have your answer. Don't let anyone on here tell you how you should live your life. It's your choice at the end of the day. If or when you feel ready to do this, come back on here and we can help provide some perspective for you. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Tired of wasting time , would like to know what to fix and howThat's a very good point. OP mentioned this in his first sentence, and I completely disregarded it... my bad: "Ok so ever since I remember I always wanted a simple life" | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to control this situation?There's your answer! Kind of hard to game a girl if she's with her parents and friends. But do you see what I mean now? Every social situation is unique and requires some form of analyzing before you jump in. You'll learn as you practice any kind of game how these situations play out, and eventually, you'll become more intuitive to how to properly react, or in your case, not to be involved at all. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 01:49 AM |
| 7 | I have no urge to "game?"I can relate to this to some extent. The key is to not just game girls, you game everyone (obviously not in a sexual way, but in a general "making conversation" sort of way). The idea is to build up a natural ability for conversation. It takes some time, however this eventually leaks over to conversations with girls, too. Also, testosterone has a big effect on how we act around others. One of the other commentors here recommended "nofap", which i've done for 6 months, but really did nothing asid… | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How to control this situation?You do nothing right now. If you see her next time, and she's alone or chatting with her friends, you can still attempt to talk to her/them. It's not like your family will look down on you for talking to girls (assuming it's socially reasonable when you do it, i.e., they're not right next to their parents when you're doing it. Calibrate) This is a problem I have with gaming theories (and this sub in general, at times). The whole notion of "You should approach girls any chance you get" is kind of… | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Tired of wasting time , would like to know what to fix and how"had a threesome 2 months ago" Seriously? To be frank, i've been involved in game-culture for several years now and have yet to have a threeway. This should be a huge confidence boost for you! Most guys don't have a threeway in their lifetime and here you are casually dropping it like it meant nothing to you. Reference experiences (things you can look back on) can give you a huge confidence boost when interacting with women. You have to think back and imagine what you felt during that time. How … | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 08:33 PM |
| 3 | The more I read about seduction, the less I understand women.Quick add-on: What you posted reminds me of a little analogy. Say you have an empty cup. Day by day, you fill up the cup with a couple drops of water. Eventually, the water reaches the brim, and the cup cannot hold any more liquid. Right now, you're trying to fill a fulled-cup. It would be more fulfilling to just leave it be, instead of spilling water all over your floor. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 03:46 AM |
| 10 | The more I read about seduction, the less I understand women.This post hit me pretty hard, since i've felt the same way for the past year or so. When I began my spring semester of this year, I went in knowing that the previous semester was an amalgam of very brief flings, 2nd/3rd base results with girls (about 8 in a span of 3 months), and not much in the form of quality sexual interaction. It just didn't feel "me". I was utilizing so many different viewpoints and theories that I learned not just from seddit, but from blogs, RSD videos, and other internet… | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Approached 4 girls today first time in my life"I don't understand what went wrong how can a guy get rejected by 4 girls lol" Because that's life. In pickup, you will go through this forever. You cannot avoid rejection, only fight your way through it. In the world, there are three types of girls: 1) The girls that want to fuck your brains out 2) The girls that want nothing to do with you 3) The girls that are neutral and can be swayed either way based on how you act These are the first girls that you ever approached. What did you expect, tha… | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 03:21 AM |
| 14 | She didnt reply. So here is what i did."HB8" Get rid of this numbers mindset. Please. A girl is either "Attractive" or "Unattractive". There's no in between. You either want to fuck her, or don't. Women aren't numbers. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 02:56 AM |
| 48 | How to have EYE Contact she can't resist...Hey If I write posts Like this I can make everything Seem super cool Almost... Like I'm Matthew Mcconnaughey... | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Can get in girls pants but not in heartsAgree is one word, bro beans. | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Be a trollI didnt read much of this, but I think I get where OP is getting at. Don't be a troll. This is just annoying as shit to people. Be you, and nobody else. Outcome independence is good, but don't use it as an excuse to be a dick to others. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | "Self improvement will hurt your success with women""The reddit self improvement and seduction community". Literally in the subreddit description. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | "Self improvement will hurt your success with women"Isn't this subreddit about pickup and self-improvement? | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | "Self improvement will hurt your success with women"Are you a woman? Do you know what women think of what's attractive and what isn't? How can you assume women don't find these things attractive? You can't base your argument off of anecdotal experience and completely debase self-improvement. Just pointing it out. Not attacking you. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 03:03 PM |
| 2 | "Self improvement will hurt your success with women"Yes. This is exactly what i'm getting at. | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 02:45 PM |
| 2 | "Self improvement will hurt your success with women"I would argue otherwise. Without improving yourself in some way, what do you have to show to a woman? Sure, you can employ certain tactics, show proper body language, and talk about certain things in such a way to her that displays attractiveness, and therefore leads to a number, relationship, or quick lay. But in reality, it's not always that simple. A lot of pickup is as much about the internal as it is about the external. What you do as an individual, your level of career success, fitness, so… | /r/seduction | 04/04/17 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Im gonna die alone.There are guys out there who haven't kissed a girl going into their mid-thirties. I didn't kiss a girl or lose my v-card until I was 21. Just a point of reference for you. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 07:52 AM |
| 3 | I become a chode once women start reciprocating.Keep doing it more. Do it so much it becomes like breathing. You do something enough, you'll get naturally better at it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlDon't shit where you eat. Feel free to make conversation, but keep it light and casual. Don't make this into some big thing. You said it yourself, you see her every day in class there, so no need to take this into pickup territory. If it happens, let it happen organically as RSD Jeff puts it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you measure improvement in skills?Good question. For me it's aboutthe aggregate amount of quality experiences had in one night. Take this past weekend for example. A girl had been talking to for that night kissed me while I went up to take a picture with her. Later on, a petite blonde girl and I made out after simply bumping into her on the dance floor. I knew her for a whopping 10 seconds. I also had a lot of funny interactions with girls that didn't lead to much, danced with a few other attractive girls, and bombed a few sets … | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 06:13 AM |
| 5 | How do I hit on girls if there are no girls to hit on?Yup. Just up and move. Cause that's so easy to do. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Contradictions driving me madGo with the former of the two. Having a "process-first" mindset will get you a lot farther than having a "I can't get x because I don't have y yet" mindset. Trust the process. If you do anything 1000 times, you will get better at it. I've always followed a mantra that Owen Cook mentioned in one of his talks, and there is so much truth to it, it scares me sometimes: (On approaching and interacting with a lot of girls over time): "The best interaction you have now, will be your average interaction… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Tonight is probably the most painful night ever.Think of pick-up like a video game. As one of the posters here said, you're just building experience points. It takes a while to level up. The level cap is infinite, and relevant to how many experiences you can fit in your life. You'll start out as a noob, then overtime (assuming you put in the work), you're an MLG pro. I can tell you from experience. Two years ago, if I told myself I would have made out with a girl within 10 seconds of meeting her, I wouldn't believe it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 03:47 AM |
| 3 | [Animated Video] 10 Tricks To Get Her To Like You - I hope you guys enjoy it :)"This one simple trick will have Pickup artists everywhere hating you!" Literally this post. | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 12:50 AM |
| 5 | This feels WAY better than sex and being a stud-muffinIt is, but that's not where true happiness stems from. Sex, in a way, is a false-happiness, manufactured by dopamine in your brain. You'll get tired of sex eventually. The key is to appreciate what you have, and constantly improving yourself to achieve long-term, steady happiness. | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 12:43 AM |
| 6 | At 32, I'm tired of just fucking random girls, and just want a loving romantic relationshipIn the book, "Way of the Superior Man", the author (David Deida) mentions how your passions will constantly fade as their "karma" runs out, and everything you want now will always change over time... in months, or years. Maybe two years from now, you'll come back and want to sleep with 4 different girls in a month? Everyone has these phases that they leave and re-enter. It's a biological imperative, in a way, that leads to further growth and development as a human being... and you can't avoid it… | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 03:19 AM |
| 3 | The feeling after talking to a girlThis boils down to literally every interaction you have with anyone, not just girls. Truth here... | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 02:09 AM |
| 3 | You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's whyDon't be this guy | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Attraction should not be assumed, it's *earned*Got it. Thanks for the criticism. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Attraction should not be assumed, it's *earned*I mean, that's true to some extent. But the same could be said for any writer in history. Mark Twain, Dr. Seuss, JK Rowling... if they adopted that mindset, would they have accomplished what they did? Would Michael Jordan be the player he was if he thought that "every basketball player has already shown us their best game, so what's the point of me playing?" People open up to me extremely fast, talking about their sexual experiences, family problems, father issues etc. One girl i handled while m… | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Attraction should not be assumed, it's *earned*Also, looking at your account, I notice you just critique other people's posts, without providing anything on your own end in terms of submitted content. Why is that? You obviously have some knowledge in game, why not share some of it with the community? | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Attraction should not be assumed, it's *earned*I'll keep this reply short since it's late. I think you took what I said a bit out of context. 1) I have approached literally countless amounts of girls, and have been intimate with five in the past month... that's not the point, not really here to have an internet pissing contest. But hey, I guess I'm just "one of those guys that stays in my head". I have a field report you can read from a couple weeks ago if you want to check it out. Fuck me, right? 2) My main point was going into any interact… | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 07:31 AM |
| 1 | The Buddhist Concept of Impermanence and PickupWhile a lot of this holds true, this could imply that every relationship you get in is doomed to fail, so why get in one at all? It makes marriage seem pointless. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 02:28 AM |
| 5 | "Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response.To say one works better than the other is a bit foolhardy. I've done fairly equal amounts of both of those phrases and still get similar results for each one. If she's interested in you, it doesn't matter how you phrase it. She'll want to spend time with you. It's that simple. | /r/seduction | 11/10/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Don't laugh... but I need help getting over my fear of women.I feel like i've seen this post before. | /r/seduction | 29/09/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Just texted one of the most popular girls I know for a date 😬 scared!!!What is the purpose of this post? Honestly? | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Been approaching for a year with no luck need adviceAre you noticing any patterns from these approaches? It sounds to me like you're doing this very concretely, without focusing on how each of these outcomes went. You're too grounded, you need to explore your mind a little bit. You're young, so this can be difficult... but still possible. I'm talking about dissecting every interaction you have with girls, even if you don't get their numbers. Find out what you did wrong, the "turning point" of attraction (where she started to lose interest), and s… | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | went out to a bar/nightclub yesterday in BostonI had a similar experience to this last weekend. The girl mentioned I was "cute" and "nerdy" the whole time talking to her. She gave me the best head of my life that night. | /r/seduction | 25/09/16 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Relevant to pickup - a quote from Michael JordanHe does, I didn't notice that until you mentioned it. | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Friday night motivation - No expectations besides FUNExactly | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesDoes it really matter when you're in the moment? No, not really. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesI wouldn't recommend doing it if you aren't experienced, you can risk serious consequences if people see you doing it and she recoils. But since you asked... All I really did was walk behind her, palmed her hair, yanked it slightly back all while holding her neck. It's a dominance play, and I did it because I felt comfortable doing it. Again, I highly suggest not doing this unless you're not just experienced with game, but also experienced sex-wise. I was taking a risk myself, but it felt natura… | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Being lucky vs being skilledAll of what you said is true, especially from a sociological standpoint. I also agree with not judging others for their decisions toward sexual relations. Calling girls "bitches" or "sluts" is your choice, but now it's fair for them to label you as an "asshole" or a "fuckboy" if you believe in that. Everyone has their own thing. A lot of younger girls here in the college i'm at don't have that baseline understanding of non-judgement... I can tell from experience dating one who now has a nice lit… | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Being lucky vs being skilledDo you think that the geographic location you're in influences the types of girls you meet, and more specifically, what they're willing to do sexually? | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 0 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesWe were both in the mood to. I hadn't jerked off in 3 days, figured i'd be sensitive enough. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 07:29 PM |
| 5 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesTell me about it. I'm done taking recreational prescriptions. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 03:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesYeah, my life in a nutshell so far. I hear ya. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesWhat am I fumbling, exactly? I'm not sure where you're getting that from. Yeah, I make mistakes here and there. We all do, nobody is immune to it. But fumbling? That's a bit of a stretch in this instance. /two cents | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 09:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesYeah, out of the 5 girls i've been with in the past month, 2 of them said they loved someone else and just wanted to be friends after being with them, one didn't want to go further, and the fifth was a FWB situation, she's now in a relationship. A lot of it has to do with how you pace your foreplay. That's kind of been the next stepping stone for me, and it'll come with time and effort. I'm patient enough to chug through it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 09:24 AM |
| 2 | [FR] - Bringing two girls home in two nights - A tale of two oppositesBoth have their benefits, but I would have to say going out solo is for those who are more willing to challenge themselves, whereas those who go out with a wingman or two are using them as social support or "crutch" if you will - it depends on your level of experience, as well as your wingman's level of experience, and if your two styles are synergistic in nature. Not that I don't enjoy going out with a wingman, but it does have its perks throughout the night, and it can make it more fun. Going … | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Went out clubbing and failed hard. What should I have done different?To say not to think is a bit rash, no? Everyone thinks to some degree, even just a little bit. It all comes down to how naturally the behavior comes to you. For some, they do have to think a little bit to initiate it, for others, doing comes first. I'm not disagreeing with your comment, just adding to that thought. /two cents | /r/seduction | 19/09/16 03:32 AM |
| 6 | 12 Things You Might Be Doing Wrong1) You are too aggressive 4) You make excuses to not approach These two sound like they contradict each other, but I think what OP is getting at is there's a fine line to walk - a tightrope if you will - between being too aggressive and too shy. Pickup is about learning how to walk it without falling off. This takes time and patience, like any learned skill. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How to Rapidly Speed up Your Gamedon't just approach to have a trivial conversation.' Piggybacking on this, it can't be stressed enough I have a good example. Today in our college's dining hall while waiting for food, I started conversation with this girl who also happened to be in my psychology class. Being in a game mindset is a constant thing for me, especially in college, so I started talking to her without really thinking about it. Within the first 10 seconds of the conversation, I could feel it flat-lining. She went right… | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice, I had never gotten this much attention from the ladies before, and last night might have gone a little too hard.This reminded me of the scene in Californication where Hank is in a FWB relationship with three different women, and they all come to his apartment at one time... almost like a metaphorical juggling act. Needless to say, he drops all of the balls - they drop hard. | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Friday Night Pep Talk: Stop Reading and Go Out.I would go out, but i'm on weekend RA duty. Hey, sometimes your job gets in the way. | /r/seduction | 10/09/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Basically, to me it means absorbing and accounting for every possible position, viewpoint, or perspective for any particular situation or environment. I can go into more detail, but i'm a bit busy with classes... PM me. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Hey man, life is all about balance. So to some degree, there is truth to what you're saying. Thanks for being civil, by the way. No offense was intended on my end. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Could use help. Escalating with very hot women.Think of a "hot woman" more like a Lamborghini - sure it'd be "nice" to own one but it's something a guy can live without and still be confident. Plus a more modest camaro which actually functions is still better in many ways than a Lambo with a broken transmission. Not to sound like fuckboy frank here, but... Bro, that's a fact. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?This... fucking this. Life is all about balance... as cliche as that statement is, it holds true to literally everything. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Anybody that tells you other wise wishes life is something it's not. They don't have the money, or the physique and are unwilling to play the game That's quite the blanket statement. Yeah... I disagree wholeheartedly with this. This is part of the reason why this sub has gone downhill. In my opinion, having a view of life like that is narrow-minded to say the least. This is coming from someone who has been in and out of red pill. That's not to say I didn't learn a couple things here and there wh… | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Well said man, agreed 100%. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Yes, agreed. As someone who has been deep into red pill and was lucky enough to find my way out, try as best as possible to avoid that subreddit. It has a couple of good self-improvement tidbits here and there, but overall it's basically a toxic pool of shit in terms of stories and advice. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Need serious advice- My ex broke up with me about a month ago, said she used "depression" to mask that she was unhappy. How to deal with knowing she started dating someone new who looks like an "upgrade" immediately after we broke up? I feel as though I failed as a man to keep her interested?Hey man, I usually just lurk on this forum, I agree with most of your post, but I felt the need to respond to this statement in particular since I disagree to an extent based on my experiences with girls and break-ups. As a guy, you are not allowed to be affected by anything external and you have to be secure in yourself. The clingy behavior showed lack of confidence in yourself and if you don't have self respect, why should she have respect for you. Again weakness of all forms is unattractive t… | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 12:35 PM |
| 1 | WORST THING FOR YOUR GAME. (Getting a reputation)Trying to not "get a rep" is virtually impossible. People inevitably WILL spread word about you. What's more important is how you handle it. You can put a positive spin on it with girls who ask by saying "Yeah, i'm a really sociable person. I like to connect with a lot of people", or "I'm a sucker for fun and good times." Something along those lines. If you're talking about sleeping with girls in the same friend group, that's a different story. Obviously there's going to be beef between them, ev… | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop beating myself up over this?Ditto this. I saw you in the previous thread at PokemonGO, and didn't expect to see you here in Seddit, but i'll bite since this is a phase I went through when I was younger and just starting out... and I see a bit of myself in OP when I was learning pickup and gaming. OP, you have to search within yourself to find the reason why you have these problems. To say that you can't have the same confidence you've had before is a lie - you can, and it's going to reach that level a lot easier since you'… | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 06:26 AM |
| 9 | Here's something I wish I knew in my early 20s...That's deep, bruh. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Top 11 Reasons You Should DaygameYou should game everything. Morning game, afternoon game, evening game, night game... How about a general rule. If she's attractive to you, approach her. It doesn't matter the time of day... | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Daygame + Nightgame MADNESS - Montreal, Quebec. I challenge you ALL [All levels welcome]Bro what are you even talking about? | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 12:50 AM |
| 5 | Buying a girl a drink, in the right context example [FIELD REPORT]The biggest mistake people in this community (and myself a few times) is over analyzing these situations. Sometimes, you just have to go with what feels right in the gut rather than getting in your own way and impeding positive progress. | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What to say after being rejected?It's funny because he's actually autistic... | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Cut your lossesThis can all be summed up in one sentence: "Let the past be the past, don't dwell." | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | It's not about girlsNot sure why you were downvoted. I agree with both of you here. Adding my two cents... I think seduction and pickup is all about becoming a master of your own game. We all have our own "brand" that we wrap around the candy we advertise as ourselves. Stealing your analogy for basketball, there are the Steph Curry's, the Lebrons, the Marc Gasol's, the Blake Griffin's, the Jimmy Butler's... each of them are masters of their own game. They all put up crazy stats in the game, but they have their own … | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 09:09 AM |
| 1 | It's not about girlsI did Nofap for half a year. Personally, I found it changed my outlook on life... but it has different effects for different guys. I'm attempting a 1-year run and instead focusing on getting release through real physical encounters rather than through an artificial stimulus. I'm also combining nofap with daily meditation and weight training 6 days a week, the holy trifecta of self-improvement. | /r/seduction | 02/01/16 09:02 AM |
| 1 | The 52 New Dates in 52 Weeks Experiment.Just a quick note: You say you want to get "...a broader perspective of what I like and dislike in a potential relationship.", yet the only way to do that is to actually get into a relationship and test the waters with one person for a while, then you have a better idea what you like and don't like. Going on 52 different dates won't help you do that, at best it will improve your improvisational IQ and conversation techniques, but nothing more. Don't take this the wrong way, just offering my take… | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Need some night-game adviceI don't use those because they're a waste of time for me personally. I'd rather be out physically meeting people face-to-face. It's just preference. Maybe when i'm a little older and have more to show for myself i'll consider trying it out again. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Need some night-game adviceNo, my Dad went to this school and so did my sister, both said it was a great school and I agree. I just didn't expect attendance to be so low. Transferring to another school would mean going through that monotonous process again, and socially proofing myself again when i've already partially done that here. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Need some night-game adviceGreat advice, thanks man. I'm actually friends with a guy on the team, have a decent group of people I keep in contact with for parties around the area, so i'm mostly set in that department. I just need to try harder then. Side note, there's no fraternities around this area, it's basically high school 2.0 with more students. | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Need some night-game adviceI already transferred here from another college, I don't want to go through that process again at least until the end of next semester. Also, I don't use facebook, so I can't use tinder | /r/seduction | 20/11/15 07:19 PM |
| -9 | Touch is so important!! (kino)So if a girl doesn't like me, I can just touch her, and boom just like that, she will be 10x closer to me? I've gotten rejected by girls who I touch. This isn't a magic bullet cure-all. When taken into account with everything else you do, it can work. But it can't be the only thing. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I dont know What This Girl wants?Read the sidebar, bud. | /r/seduction | 16/11/15 12:40 AM |
| 11 | 10 Ways to Start a Conversation with a WomanI thought it was helpful, and obviously 80% of others here did too. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 01:13 AM |
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